By Father Ron Rolheiser, OMI
There’s nothing simple about being a human being. We’re a mystery to ourselves and often our own worst enemies. Our inner complexity befuddles us and, not infrequently, stymies us. Nowhere is this truer than in our struggle with love and intimacy.
More than anything else, we hunger for intimacy, to be touched where we are most tender, where we are most ourselves, where all that’s most precious in us lies, vulnerable and yearning. Yet, in the actual face of intimacy, sensitive people often become disquieted and resistant.
We see two powerful instances of this in the Gospels: The first in a story, recorded in all four Gospels, where a woman enters a room where Jesus is dining and, in a series of lavish gestures, breaks an expensive bottle of perfume, pours the perfume onto his feet, washes his feet with her tears, dries them with her hair, and then begins to kiss his feet. What’s the response of those in the room, save for Jesus?
Discomfort and resistance. This shouldn’t be happening! Everyone shifts uncomfortably in their chairs in the face of this raw expression of love and Jesus, himself, has to challenge them to look at the source of their discomfort.
Among other things, he points out that, ironically, what they are uncomfortable with is what lies at the very center of life and at the very center of their deepest desires, namely, the pure giving and receiving of love and affection. It’s this, Jesus affirms, for which we are alive and it’s this experience which prepares us for death. It’s what we are alive for. It’s also what we most yearn for? So why our discomfort and resistance when we actually face it in life?
The second instance occurs in John’s Gospel where, at the Last Supper, Jesus tries to wash his disciples’ feet. As John records it, Jesus got up from the table, stripped off his outer robe, took a basin and towel, and began to wash his disciples’ feet. But he meets discomfort and resistance, clearly voiced by Peter who simply tells Jesus: “Never! You will never wash my feet!”
Why? Why the resistance? Why resistance in the face of the fact that, no doubt, more than anything else, what Peter most deeply desired was exactly that Jesus should wash his feet, that he would enjoy this kind of intimacy with Jesus?
Answering the question of our struggle with intimacy in this context provides one clue for why we sometimes become uncomfortable and resistant when we are in the actual face of what we desire so deeply. Our feet are too-intimate; they’re a part of our bodies where we worry about dirt and smell, not a part of ourselves that we feel comfortable having others touch.
There’s an innate vulnerability, a discomfort, an inchoate shame, attached to having someone else touch and wash so intimate a part of us. Intimacy demands an ease which our vulnerability sometimes renders impossible. And so this text speaks to one kind of resistance to intimacy, to a particular unease within certain circumstances.
But Peter’s resistance here speaks too of something else, something more salient: If we are healthy and sensitive, we all will naturally experience a certain discomfort and resistance in the face of raw gift, before raw intimacy, before raw gratuity. And, while this is something to be overcome, it’s not a fault, a moral or psychological flaw on our part.
On the contrary, in its normal expression, it’s a sign of moral and psychological sensitivity. Why do I say this?
Why is something that seems to block us from moving towards the very essence of life not a sign that there’s something fundamentally wrong inside of us? I suggest that it’s not a flaw but rather a healthy mechanism inside us because narcissistic, boorish
and insensitive persons are often immune to this discomfort and resistance. Their narcissism shields them from shame and their callousness allows them an easy and brute ease with intimacy, like someone who is sexually jaded enough to be comfortable with pornography or like someone who takes intimacy as something to be had by right, casually or even aggressively. In this case, there’s no shame or discomfort because there’s no real intimacy.
Sensitive people, on the other hand, struggle with the rawness of intimacy because genuine intimacy, like heaven, is not something that can be glibly or easily achieved. It’s a lifelong struggle, a give and take with many setbacks, a revealing and a hiding, a giving over and a resistance, an ecstasy and a feeling of unworthiness, an acceptance that struggles with real surrender, an altruism that still contains selfishness, a warmth that sometimes turns cold, a commitment that still has some conditions, and a hope that struggles to sustain itself.
Intimacy isn’t like heaven. It is salvation. It is the Kingdom. Thus, like the Kingdom, both the road and the gate towards it are narrow, not easily found. So be gentle, patient, and forgiving towards others and self in that struggle.
(Oblate Father Ron Rolheiser, theologian, teacher and award-winning author, is President of the Oblate School of Theology in San Antonio, Texas)
Monthly Archives: November 2016
Sisters of Charity of Nazareth: ‘lives of quiet hope, deep joy’
By Dana Hinton

The late Sr. Paula Merrill, SCN, visiting with a patient at the Lexington Medical Clinic in this file photo. She is one of many Sisters of Charity of Nazareth serving around the world. (File Photo)
We are the Sisters of Charity of Nazareth. We are the community to which Paula Merrill, SCN, belonged. As you probably know, in late August our Sister Paula and her companion in community and ministry, Sister Margaret Held, a School Sister of St. Francis, were murdered in their home.
Sister Paula and Sister Margaret lived in Durant, Mississippi, quietly serving a greatly underserved population as nurse practitioners at a small clinic and living in the community as good neighbors, baking bread to give away, sharing meals, singing in the choir and visiting their patients in their homes when they needed extra care. Paula lived our SCN mission wholeheartedly letting our motto, “the love of Christ impels us” guide her day by day.
Sister Paula’s death was sudden and unusual. Her quiet, dedicated, loving way of living the SCN charism and mission, however, was not unusual. She lived like so many SCNs and Associates who use their expertise, their love and their talents to make real the reign of God that Jesus talks about in the Gospel.
SCNs just like Sister Paula can be found throughout the United States and all around the world, serving in ministries of education, healthcare, and social services. They live lives of quiet hope and with the deep joy that comes from their relationship with the God whose people they love and serve – in the slums of Delhi, walking the halls of the hospice for AIDS patients in Botswana, among the elderly living in poverty in Belize City, with differently-abled children in Nepal, among immigrants in Louisville, KY – just to name a few examples.
We strive to live out our Mission and Vision Statement each day:
Mission: The Sisters of Charity of Nazareth are an international Congregation in a multicultural world. Impelled by the love of Christ, in the tradition of Vincent de Paul and the pioneer spirit of Catherine Spalding, Sisters and Associates are committed to work for justice in solidarity with oppressed peoples, especially the economically poor and women, and to care for the earth. They risk their lives and resources, both personally and corporately, as they engage in diverse ministries in carrying out this mission.
Vision: The Sisters of Charity of Nazareth promote the dignity and equality of women and other oppressed people in Church and in society.
If you are interested in learning more about religious life and the SCN Community, we encourage you to visit: scnfamily.org. You can contact our vocations office at vocation@scnky.org or 502-331-4516.
Pastoral Assignments

Deacon John McGregor
Deacon John McGregor has been appointed as Director of the Permanent Diaconate for the Diocese of Jackson, effective Nov. 1, 2016.
This appointment is in addition to his duties at St. Jude Catholic Church in Pearl.

Father Joseph Le
In accordance with Canon 630 of the Code of Canon Law, Rev. Joseph Lee has been appointed Ordinary Confessor to the Carmelite Community in Jackson, effective Nov. 1, 2016.
Creando una cultura de vocaciones
Por Obispo Joseph Kopacz
El trabajo de imaginación y planificación pastoral está a punto de llegar a un momento trascendental en el largo proceso de casi un año durante el 2016, es decir, la presentación de las declaraciones de misión y visión, las tres prioridades pastorales y sus objetivos específicos para los próximos dos años.
Ha sido un estimulante proyecto popular y de imaginación de equipo el cual se reunió por séptima vez a comienzos de esta semana para perfeccionar, bajo la guía del Espíritu Santo, lo que será nuestra dirección como diócesis durante los años venideros. Por supuesto, la etapa siguiente es a menudo la más difícil ya que debemos dedicar nuestros esfuerzos a su aplicación en el nuevo año.
Bajo la guía de una de nuestras prioridades pastorales: formar discípulos intencionales a lo largo de toda la vida es la promoción de una cultura de vocaciones. ¿Qué significa esto? Esta edición de Mississippi Catholic está dedicada a las vocaciones e inmediatamente esto puede provocarle a los católicos la línea tradicional de comprensión, es decir, los ordenados y consagrados.
Pero mientras el Espíritu Santo nos guía hacia el segundo milenio del cristianismo estamos mucho más conscientes de que el Señor Jesús llama a todos los que han sido bautizados a seguirlo a lo largo de sus vidas como sus discípulos. Esta llamada universal a la santidad, bajo el impulso del Espíritu Santo, con la mente y el corazón de Jesucristo, para la gloria de Dios Padre, y en la vida de la iglesia, es el fundamento de una cultura de vocaciones. Vocaciones religiosas y nuevos ordenados surgirán de este campo fértil.
La semilla de la fe iniciada en el bautismo, la vida de Dios, la promesa de la vida eterna, es para ser alimentada y no descuidada en cada etapa de nuestras vidas. Los primeros años, por supuesto, son como una piedra angular y a menudo proporcionan la luz orientadora de la fe en el seno de la familia y luego es nutrida en las parroquias, escuelas y en diversos ministerios.
En esta etapa un muchacho o una muchacha son introducidos a la oración y la Biblia, devociones tradicionales católicas, especialmente la Eucaristía, la santa Misa. Como esponjas, los niños y adolescentes pueden ver la fe y la bondad trabajando en las vidas de las generaciones mayores en sus vidas, y estos testigos vivos fortalecerán su experiencia de la presencia viva de Dios en nuestro mundo. Este es el campo fértil de la semilla de la fe cayendo en tierra buena. Pero los obstáculos revelados en la parábola del Señor del sembrador y la semilla es tan relevante en nuestro mundo moderno como lo fue cuando se los dijo desde un barco de pescador en el mar de Galilea en el mundo antiguo.
La semilla de la fe puede caer en el camino y fácilmente puede ser pisoteada por el ajetreo de la vida. La semilla también puede caer en las rocas y sin la posibilidad de echar raíces, es quemada por el calor del día, que es el sufrimiento inevitable en este mundo, así como la frecuente persecución y la hostilidad dirigida contra los discípulos del Señor.
Además, la semilla puede caer entre las espinas y las ansiedades y temores diarios, junto con el señuelo de la riqueza y del bienestar material, pueden también ahogar la palabra viva. Pero incluso en el clima más duro la vida puede perdurar y creemos que nada es imposible para Dios porque donde hay vida hay esperanza.
El Señor nos llama a perseverar y a crear esos jardines y culturas de fe en nuestras familias, parroquias, escuelas y ministerios, a fin de que podamos ser discípulos a lo largo de toda la vida donde las vocaciones puedan florecer.
Exige que las comunidades de discípulos recen y fomenten las vocaciones en todas las edades. Las vocaciones a la vida consagrada y ordenada permanecen como una importante, viable y crítica forma de servir al Señor Jesús en nuestro tiempo. Durante más de un siglo, a partir de la década de los años 1850, grandes familias de inmigrantes produjeron muchas vocaciones para el sacerdocio y la vida religiosa.
Con el advenimiento del mundo moderno y durante el último medio siglo han habido levantamientos sísmicos en los ámbitos seculares y religiosos que pondrían en tela de juicio todos los valores tradicionales.
De hecho, ahora más que nunca necesitamos discípulos del Señor que decidan ser célibes por el bien del reino de Dios. Cuando viven plenamente y fielmente los ordenados y religiosos son testigos vivientes de la vida eterna. De seguro, Jesús vino a darnos vida abundante ahora, pero siempre con miras hacia la eternidad. El sello del estado célibe es el amor a Jesucristo y el espacio dejado por Dios para ser consagrado exclusivamente en este mundo.
Nunca va a ser una vía de escape de este mundo, o un estado de ánimo que mira el amor conyugal y los niños como una casta inferior. Más bien es una forma de vida que le permite a uno la libertad de equilibrar la contemplación y la acción en el amoroso servicio al Señor en la Iglesia y en el mundo en una vida de dedicación, reflejando el amor de Jesucristo, que no se sí hoy y no mañana. Su amor es fiel y permanente. Este es un valor que el mundo moderno lucha por entender cuando todo es relativo y temporal. La vida de dedicación de los ordenados y religiosos es un ancla el mundo moderno que es fácilmente arrojado en los vientos de cambio.
Una vocación al servicio de Dios según el plan de Dios para nuestras vidas es nuestra diaria paz y propósito, y la promesa de la vida eterna. Sólo la semana pasada, después de 108 años los Cubs de Chicago ganaron la Serie Mundial. En medio de todo estaba el Padre Burke Masters, un sacerdote católico de la Diócesis de Jolliet que había jugado béisbol en la Universidad Estatal de Mississippi (Mississippi State University) con una prometedora carrera profesional de béisbol.
Un gran momento para él y la franquicia de los Cubs, seguro, pero él está trabajando en un campo de sueños diarios sirviendo en la viña del Señor en la parroquia, en el trabajo vocacional, y en el parque de béisbol, una bendición más allá de este mundo de éxitos.
Para mí, por la gracia de Dios y las oraciones de muchos, acojo mi vocación como un trabajo de amor sobre un campo de sueños. Abundan las bendiciones. “Amaos los unos a los otros como yo os he amado, y mi alegría será suya y su alegría será completa” es la paz que el mundo no puede dar. Oren por las vocaciones al sacerdocio y a la vida religiosa, promuévanlas en sus familias y caminen fielmente con el Señor en la tierra de los vivientes.
Called to holiness: Creating a Culture of Vocations
By Bishop Joseph Kopacz
The work of envisioning and pastoral planning is about to reach a significant juncture in the nearly year long process of 2016, that is, the unveiling of the Mission and Vision statements, the three Pastoral Priorities and their specific Goals for the next two years.
It has been an inspiring grassroots project and the Envisioning Team will have met for the seventh day-long session earlier this week to further refine, under the guidance of the Holy Spirit, what will be our direction as a diocese for the years ahead. Of course, the next stage is often the most difficult as we dedicate our efforts to implementation in the new year.
Under the umbrella of one of our pastoral priorities: to form life long intentional disciples, is the promotion of a culture of vocations. What does this mean? This issue of Mississippi Catholic is dedicated to vocations and immediately this can elicit for Catholics the traditional line of understanding, i.e. the ordained and consecrated life. But as the Holy Spirit leads us to the plateau of the second millennium of Christianity we are so much more aware that the Lord Jesus calls all who are baptized in life giving waters to follow him throughout their lives as his disciples.
This universal call to holiness under the impulse of the Holy Spirit, with the mind and heart of Jesus Christ, to the glory of God the Father and in the life of the Church, is the foundation for a culture of vocations. Ordained and religious vocations will emerge from this fertile field.
The seed of faith begun in Baptism, God’s life, the promise of eternal life, is to be nurtured and not neglected, at each stage of our lives. The early years, of course, are like a cornerstone and often provide the guiding light of faith within the family and then further nurtured in parishes, schools and in various ministries. At this stage a young boy or girl is introduced to prayer and the Bible, traditional Catholic devotions and especially the Eucharist, the Mass.
Like sponges a child and teenager can see the faith and goodness at work in the lives of older generations in their lives and these living witnesses will strengthen their experience of the living presence of God in our world. This is the fertile field of the seed of faith falling on good soil. But the obstacles revealed in the Lord’s parable of the Sower and the Seed is just as relevant in our post modern world as it was when he told it from a fisherman’s boat on the sea of Galilee in the ancient world.
The seed of faith can land on the path and can easily be trampled by the busyness of life. The seed can land also on rocks and without the possibility of laying down roots, it is burned up by the heat of the day, which is the inevitable suffering in this world, as well as the not infrequent persecution and hostility directed against the Lord’s disciples.
Furthermore, the seed can fall among thorns and daily anxieties and fears, along with the lure of riches and material well being, can also choke the living Word. But even in the harshest climate life can endure and we believe that nothing is impossible for God because where there is life there is hope.
The Lord calls us to persevere and create those gardens and cultures of faith in our families, parishes, schools and ministries, so that we can be life-long intentional disciples where vocations can flourish.
It requires communities of disciples to pray for and encourage vocations in every age. Vocations to the ordained and consecrated life remain a viable and critically important way to serve the Lord Jesus in our time. For more than a century, beginning in the 1850s, larger immigrant families produced many vocations for the priesthood and religious life. With the dawn of the modern world and for the past half century there have been seismic upheavals in the secular and religious realms calling into question all traditional values.
In fact, now more than ever we need disciples of the Lord who choose to be celibate for the sake of the Kingdom of God. When lived fully and faithfully the ordained and religious are living witnesses to eternal life. For sure, Jesus came to give us abundant life now, but always with a view toward eternity.
The hallmark of the celibate state is love for Jesus Christ and the space allowed for God to be embodied uniquely in this world. Never is it to be an escape from this world, or a state of mind that looks upon married love and children as a lower caste. Rather, it is a way of life that allows one the freedom to balance contemplation and action in loving service to the Lord in the Church and in the world in a life long commitment, mirroring the love of Jesus Christ who is not yes today and no tomorrow.
His love is faithful and permanent. This is a value that the modern world struggles to grasp when everything is relative and temporary. The life long commitment of the ordained and religious is an anchor the modern world which is easily tossed about in the winds of change.
A vocation in the Lord’s service according to God’s plan for our lives is our daily peace and purpose and the promise of eternal life. Just last week after 108 years the Chicago Cubs won the World Series. In the middle of it all stood Father Burke Masters, a Catholic priest of the Diocese of Jolliet and a former baseball standout at Mississippi State with a promising professional baseball career.
A great moment in time for him and the Cubs franchise, for sure, but he is working in a daily field of dreams as he serves in the Lord’s vineyard in the parish, in vocation work and at the ballpark, a blessing far beyond this world’s successes.
For me, by God’s grace and the prayers of many, I embrace my vocation as a labor of love on a field of dreams. Blessings abound. “Love one another as I have loved you and my joy will be yours and your joy will be complete” is the peace that the world cannot give.
Pray for vocations to the priesthood and religious life, encourage them in your families and walk faithfully with the Lord in the land of the living.
Parish News

JACKSON – Olga Villar, center, director of Hispanic Ministry for the Archdiocese of Mobile, led a meeting on the V National Encuentro of Hispanic/Latino Ministry on Tuesday, Oct. 25, at the Cathedral Center. Bishop Joseph Kopacz and about 25 priests, religious and lay leaders attended the meeting. The V Encuentro is being planned in the Diocese of Jackson and nationwide. It will be held in 2018 in Texas. (Photo by Elsa Baughman)
SPIRITUAL ENRICHMENT
CLARKSDALE St. Elizabeth Parish, Faith in Action gathering, Tuesday, Nov. 15, from 5 – 6:30 p.m. in McKenna Hall. Sessions focus on praying, learning and acting together. Details: Dorothy Balser, 601-941-4600, dorothy.balser@ccjackson.org.
CORINTH St. James Parish, eight-week adult video series, “Unlocking the Mysteries of the Bible” Wednesdays at 2 p.m.
– Communal reconciliation service, Wednesday, Nov. 30, at 6 p.m.
GREENWOOD the Jubilee Missionary Icon of Our Mother of Perpetual Help visits Locus Benedictus Retreat Center in November. Members of the Redemptorist community will present information about the icon Saturday, November 26, and Saturday, December 3. Locus Benedictus Retreat Center. Times TBD. Details: www.locusbenedictus.com.
JACKSON St. Peter Parish, Advent retreat, “Christ is Christmas,” Anointing Mass and lunch, Saturday, Dec. 3, from 9 a.m. – noon.
IUKA St. Mary Parish, day-long retreat, Saturday, Dec. 3. A video and discussion about the newly canonized Santa Teresa of Calcuta will be part of the retreat.
TUPELO St. James Parish Knights of Columbus annual men’s retreat, Nov 18-20 at St. Bernard’s Abbey. Father Lincoln Dall, pastor, will be the retreat master. Cost is $100 for a shared rooms; $150 for private rooms. Details: David Friloux, 662-213-3742, davidfriloux@comcast.net.
PARISH, SCHOOL & FAMILY EVENTS
AMORY St. Helen Parish, book discussion group will read “Glass Castle” by Jeanette Wall for discussion at noon on Monday, Nov. 14. Everyone is invited.
BROOKHAVEN St. Francis of Assisi Parish, beginning Saturday, Nov. 12, Mass will be celebrated at 4 p.m.
– Knights of Columbus annual spaghetti dinner, Thursday, Nov. 17.
– Community Thanksgiving gathering at Macedonia Baptist Church, Sunday, Nov. 20, from 6 – 7 p.m.
CLEVELAND Our Lady of Victories Parish, movie night, “Risen,” Sunday, Nov. 20, after the 5 p.m. Mass. Free. Snacks will be provided.
GLUCKSTADT St. Joseph Parish, sign-up for the Christmas Pageant, “The ABCs of Christmas,” has begun. It will be held Saturday, Dec. 3. All children (Kindergarten thru grade 12) are invited to participate. Information sheets are located in the back of the church. Details: Karen Worrell, kworrellcre@hotmail.com to sign-up.
GREENWOOD The Community Thanksgiving Service, sponsored by the Greenwood Ministerial Association, will be hosted by St. John’s United Methodist Church, 1001 Grand Boulevard on Sunday, Nov. 20, at 6 p.m. The speaker will be Father Greg Plata, pastor of Immaculate Heart of Mary and St. Francis of Assisi parishes.
GRENADA St. Peter Parish Jubilee History Committee is putting together a slide show for its jubilee. Pictures are needed of weddings, VBS, baptisms, senior class, First Communion, etc.. The older the better. Note the event, year and names too. Email pictures to: Livingstonclan@cableone.net.
HERNANDO/SOUTHAVEN parish mission at Holy Spirit and Christ the King parishes, Nov. 13-15 beginning with dinner at 6 p.m. The talks will be from 7 – 8 p.m. Father John Van den Hengel, SCJ, a theologian from Ontario, Canada, will be the speaker. The mission is for parishioners from Hernando Holy Spirit, Holly Springs St. Joseph, Olive Branch Queen of Peace, Robinsonville Good Shepherd, Senatobia St. Gregory and Southaven Christ the King.
Holy Spirit will host the sessions in English and Father Zigniew Morawiec, SCJ, will present the talks in Spanish at Christ the King. Childcare will be available.
HERNANDO Holy Spirit Parish, Ladies Association’s annual frozen casserole sale, Saturday, Nov. 19. Each family is asked to donate at least one of their favorite casseroles. Details: Cil Johnson, 662-420-9875.
– Bishop Joseph Kopacz will celebrate Mass on Sunday, Nov. 20. A luncheon will follow.
JACKSON St. Therese Parish, calendar planning meeting, Wednesday, Nov. 16, at 6 p.m. in the parish hall. All organizations and parishioners are welcome.
MADISON St. Francis of Assisi Parish, “Rockin’ Around the Advent Wreath Advent Fair,” Sunday, Nov. 20, from 11:30 a.m.- 1 p.m. for lunch and family fun! Volunteers are needed to set up, decorate, and lead children’s crafts and activities. Details: Mary Catherine George, 601-856-5556, mc.george@stfrancismadison.org.
NATCHEZ St. Mary Basilica, blood drive, Tuesday, Nov. 15, from 1 – 6 p.m. in the Family Life Center.
Mardi Gras Ball
GREENWOOD St. Francis of Assisi School will host a Mardi Gras Ball featuring Steve Azar on Feb. 18, 2017 at the Leflore Civic Center. Save the date.
150th anniversary
VILLAGE, Ark. – Our Lady of the Lake Parish 150th anniversary celebration, Saturday and Sunday, Nov. 19-20. On Saturday, there will be a cookout and games beginning at 10 a.m. Mass will be celebrated at 5 p.m. and on Sunday at 9 a.m. followed by a commemorative ceremony and meal.
Save the date
MADISON – Matthew Kelly will come to the Jackson area on Saturday, March 11, 2017, from 2 – 6 p.m. at the Madison Central High School Auditorium. The facility seats 1,000 people. Look for more details in upcoming Mississippi Catholic editions.
Diocese of Jackson announces #igiveCatholic participants
The Diocese of Jackson has the second highest number of organizations participating in #iGiveCatholic than any other diocese, second only to the founder, the Archdiocese of New Orleans.
On November 29, almost 50 parishes, schools and missions will take online donations for 24 hours through the website www.igivecatholic.com. See the online profiles of these organizations to find out how each will use the money.
To donate log onto www.igivecatholic.org.
Diocesan Offices and Funds:
Catholic Charities
The Catholic Foundation
Diocese of Jackson Archives
Office of Black Catholic Ministry
Office of Catholic Education
Office of Vocations
Office of Youth Ministry
Order of Discalced Carmelites
Retired Priests’ Fund
Seminarian Education Fund
Organizations
Greenwood Locus Benedictus Retreat Center
Walls Sacred Heart Southern Missions
Mound Bayou St. Gabriel Mercy Center
Parishes and Missions
Amory St. Helen Parish
Batesville St. Mary Parish
Bruce St. Luke the Evangelist Parish
Clarksdale Immaculate Conception Parish
Clarksdale St. Elizabeth Parish
Greenville St. Joseph Parish
Greenwood St. Francis Parish
Grenada St. Peter Parish
Hernando Holy Spirit Parish
Holly Springs St. Gregory the Great Parish
Holly Springs St. Joseph Parish
Jackson Cathedral of St. Peter the Apostle
Jackson St. Therese Parish
Leland St. James Parish
Madison St. Francis of Assisi Parish
McComb St. Alphonsus Parish
New Albany St. Francis of Assisi Parish
Olive Branch Queen of Peace Parish
Pearl St. Jude Parish
Pontotoc St. Christopher Mission
Robinsonville Good Shepherd Parish
Sardis St. John Parish
Senatobia St. Gregory
Southaven Christ the King Parish
Tupelo St. James Parish
Vicksburg St. Michael Parish
Schools:
Clarksdale St. Elizabeth
Columbus Annunciation
Flowood St. Paul Early Learning Center
Greenville Our Lady of Lourdes
Greenville St. Joseph
Greenwood St. Francis of Assisi
Holly Springs Holy Family
Jackson Sr. Thea Bowman
Jackson St. Richard
Madison St. Anthony
Madison St. Joseph
Meridian St. Patrick
Natchez Cathedral
Southaven Sacred Heart
Vicksburg Catholic
When it comes to vocations, successful programs focus on the basics
(EDITOR’S NOTE: This edition of Mississippi Catholic celebrates National Vocations Awareness Week, Nov. 6-11. Look inside for stories from local religious and reflections on vocations from across the diocese.)
By Dennis Sadowski
WASHINGTON (CNS) – Finding candidates to consider joining the priesthood or religious life has never been easy.
There are serious questions to address, prayer to undertake, and solo and group activities that help determine whether a person is meant to live a religious life of ministry.
To meet the ongoing need for priests and women religious to meet the spiritual needs of Catholic communities, various programs have evolved over time to give men and women a wide range of discernment opportunities.
In the end, it comes down building relationships, trust and understanding. On the spiritual side, the desire to enter religious life is grounded in a deep love of God that is built through prayer and a desire to take on the “smell of the sheep,” as Pope Francis has demonstrated time and again.
Here’s a look at the way a few organizations operate their vocations programs. Innovative? Perhaps. More so they seem to be common sense steps that are reaping rewards.
At Texas A&M University in College Station, Texas, the Catholic community is larger than the majority of parishes in the country.
About 25 percent of the 60,000 students on campus identify themselves as Catholic, said Marcel LeJeune, associate director of Newman Campus Ministry at St. Mary’s Catholic Center, which serves the school. That breaks down to about 15,000 young adults around which to build ministry.
“We average about 5,000 people at Mass on the weekends,” LeJeune told Catholic News Service. He estimates that 90 percent of Massgoers are students. “People are usually standing in the aisles,”
When confessions are heard, the lines are long with some students waiting up to 45 minutes to see a priest. And it’s not uncommon for LeJeune to make a stop in the chapel where perpetual adoration occurs and see “15 kids in there.”
All of these are signs of what LeJeune describes as a dynamic ministry “to all the different kinds of kids you’re going to meet.” Such vibrancy has long borne fruit for vocations in religious life.
“We have 160 Aggie Catholics who are bishops, priests, deacons and religious,” LeJeune explained, invoking the school’s sports nickname.
LeJeune shared some statistics:
– In mid-October, 81 university alumni were in formation for religious life or enrolled in a seminary.
– This year alone, 15 men and women entered formation programs.
– During the past 19 years, more than nine men and women annually entered religious life; over the past five years, the average number has risen to more than 12.
LeJeune credits the large Catholic population for such glowing statistics: the more people, the greater the number of vocations.
Further, he finds that such vocations success has more to do with the enthusiasm of the 65 people, including the priests and women religious, who work at St. Mary’s.
“We don’t have a magic bullet,” he said. “For us, it’s men and women who love what they do and who are meeting students who can see these men and women, a priest, a religious, who love what they do, and can see themselves doing it.
“We also do a good job of evangelizing and forming them in prayer. Without conversion and formation and prayer, you can’t discern. We’re teaching them how to pray. Plus putting them in front of opportunities to get to know priests and (women) religious who love what they do. That’s it.”
The vibrancy of the St. Mary’s Catholic Center apparently has gained the attention of the Diocese of Austin, Texas, and even Vatican officials. The last two pastors of the community have been named bishops. There’s Bishop Dave A. Konderla of Tulsa, Oklahoma, who served for 11 years at St. Mary’s, and his predecessor, Bishop Michael J. Sis of San Angelo, Texas, who served for 13 years there.
“That will tell you how much they value the priests who have served here,” LeJeune says. “It takes a special man to be our pastor with a special set of gifts.”
In a few years, Msgr. Scott Friend, director of vocations in the Diocese of Little Rock, Arkansas, sees the number of priests bumping up from the mid-50s to the mid-60s.
That may not seem like a large number of priests, but in a state where Catholics are a definite minority, a boost of nearly 20 percent looks good.
Msgr. Friend, who also is the diocese’s vicar general, saw five men ordained to the priesthood in May. For next spring, six men are on course for ordination. And in 2018, the number is seven.
“That’s pretty phenomenal. We’ve got some pretty sharp guys coming up,” he told CNS.
Current seminarians and new priests represent a mix of men from different age groups. Along with young men who entered the seminary from high school, there’s a number of men who began careers before discerning a call to serve God.
Several factors have contributed to the diocese’s success. One is the ability of staff, especially the four priests on the team, to help seminarians navigate the road to priesthood.
Msgr. Friend has led the vocations effort for 12 years. He’s 55 and finds that he often he’s called to be “a good father figure.”
With an increasing number of older seminarians – those not just out of high school – Msgr. Friend said it’s necessary “to maintain the right kind of balance, of being approachable, and at the same time maintain the boundaries of what it means to be a good father (parent).”
Other factors also have contributed to the diocese’s growing vocations numbers.
About a dozen seminarians live in what is known as Formation House, a community located at a Little Rock parish in one of the city’s working-class neighborhoods. There, seminarians not only go through the experience of book learning, but see the potential for parish ministry.
He said that the setting allows the men to widen their “missionary spirit” in a state where just 4 percent of the population is Catholic.
Like many areas of the country, Arkansas is experiencing a growth in the Latino population. Seminarians are required to learn Spanish. Having a language skill builds a bond to a community that priests might not get to know well, Msgr. Friend said.
And the Latino community is beginning to produce candidates for priestly vocations as well. It’s a good sign, Msgr. Friend acknowledged.
A culture of vocations finds parishioners throughout the Diocese of Wichita, Kansas, promoting the priesthood and religious life.
It’s something that has been fostered in the 25 counties of the diocese for 30 years, said Father Michael M. Simone, diocesan director of vocations.
There has been “profound impact on our families and schools and has a strong effect on our vocations programs,” Father Simone told CNS.
The effort has helped boost the number of seminarians to more than 60 in recent years after it hovered about 33 percent lower a decade ago. One result is that median age of diocesan priests has remained constant at 45 to 47.
“In terms of recruiting the next generation of priests, it really starts in the family and expands to the family receiving the faith which is the parish and the school,” he explained.
Diocesan schools play a role in the vocations culture as well. “There’s a lot of preformation and cultivation for the calls to discernment to take place for us,” Father Simone added.
Once the men are in formation, Father Simone helps them with supplemental programs that help them build a sense of what the priesthood is about. He cites a weekly Friday night discussion group throughout the summer “to discuss pertinent topics relevant to the ways they’ll exercise their priestly ministry in the diocese.”
The seminarians also are prepared to minister to the growing Latino population of the diocese, something which other dioceses may not be addressing yet. The effort includes training in the Spanish language as a way to stress the global nature of the church.
“We have a lot of Hispanic people who desire and need bilingual priests,” he said.