The generosity of people … brought help and hope to so many

By Linda Raff
Katrina began for me with the evacuation of my daughter and her family and their friends from New Orleans.  With 80 mile hour winds howling and trees swaying and finally one uprooting around our 100 year-old-house, we tried to settle in and ride out the storm.  I went from room to room peering out windows to make sure we could escape if a tree began to fall in on the house.  With two babies in the house it was a harrowing experience.
Having stayed up all night, I gathered my strength and began to focus on Catholic Charities and how we could mobilize our resources for what would surely be the most challenging event in our history.  I can still feel how strange it felt to drive down State Street, deserted and with winds still howling.  Sister Donna Gunn and I were the only arrivals.  We discussed her role as disaster coordinator and scratched our heads a bit to determine just what that entailed.
With few resources initially, we determined manning the phones was the immediate priority.  Calls began to come in from all over the country offering goods and services as well as calls from evacuees from the Mississippi and Louisiana Gulf Coast. Because Jackson experienced high and sustained winds, power outages occurred all over the city.
Trees were down and many homes suffered significant damage.  The needs of Jackson citizens were great to say nothing of the evacuees.  Staff began to trickle in and answer the constantly ringing phones.  Mountains of supplies were announced to be on their way.  Hundreds of individuals and families needed these supplies so how to connect the goods with the people was the new priority.
Answering the call, long term saintly Governance Council member, Roger Vincent, located a warehouse in what is now New Horizons International Church.  He and Sr. Donna oversaw the stocking of the warehouse until we were able to hire a warehouse manager.  The supplies that were donated from all over the country were connected with thousands of individuals and families, many who had lost everything, many with significant damage to their homes, and many who did not know how their homes and property had faired.
Staff began to travel south to hard hit communities with basic supplies such as food, clothing, and cleaning supplies.  They accessed communities that no one else had reached. Sr. Donna actually spent the night in her office so that she was accessible 24 hours for a period during the initial phase.
Msgr. Elvin Sunds and I traveled to the coast to meet with the Diocese of Biloxi to determine if we had supplies that could help with their needs.  We toured the area and even though we had seen television coverage, nothing prepared us for the complete and utter destruction the coast had endured.
We drove from church to church and thru neighborhoods both rich and poor.  All had endured significant damage.  How could the poorest state in the country survive such a disaster, especially as it welcomed so many from New Orleans and surrounding area who had experienced equal if not greater damage?  How could immediate needs be met?
As it turned out, the generosity of people from all across the nation brought help and hope to so many answering the immediate needs of those with little or nothing.  Bishop Joseph Latino, bishop at that time, immediately established a second collection for victims and Catholic Charities began to distribute funds for rental assistance, food, utilities, etc.  New Orleans began to flood so there was a continual wave of people fleeing the rising waters.
My daughter and family and friends headed north to Senatobia, my son’s home, since we lost power and since they could not get back into their flooded city.  My daughter’s mother-in-law did not leave New Orleans before the storm so we had no word from her and remained concerned for two weeks as to her whereabouts.  Her house flooded and she was rescued from the roof of her house and deposited on an over pass with no food or water for several days.  She was ultimately evacuated to a small town in Texas and served by a small Baptist Church.  She was finally able to fly into Little Rock, Arkansas and join the family in Senatobia.
With mounting numbers of evacuees seeking relief from Catholic Charities, it was freeing to know that the family was all alive and well and temporarily located in a safe environment, with lights, water etc.  Catholic Charities, USA, our national membership organization, began to solicit donations nationwide and very soon had a large sum of money to grant to the gulf states.  Catholic Charities applied and received over one million dollars to help with short term as well as long term recovery efforts.
During this initial period Catholic Charities hosted a weekly meeting of all voluntary organizations that came to the area to offer assistance.  It was helpful to identify the groups; however, very few had tangible goods to offer.
There was much advice and some volunteer teams were available for repairing houses.  In addition, staff daily checked on all the evacuees that were housed at the Coliseum.  Finding pregnant women and seniors sleeping on the floor was alarming.  Upon hearing this need, St. Dominic Hospital supplied foam mattresses until cots could be secured.
The generosity of St. Dominic’s and other institutions greatly aided in the short and long term recovery efforts of Catholic Charities and other organizations.  With local help as well as the grant form Catholic Charities USA, Catholic Charities was able to hire long term recovery staff that distributed monetary aide and offered case management and clinical services over a five year period.
Thousands of families and individuals were given help and hope and were aided in their recovery.  The generosity of so many gave Catholic Charities the blessing of carrying out its  mission of being a visible sign of God’s love for all people at one of the most vulnerable times in the history of the Diocese.
(Linda Raff is the outgoing executive director of Catholic Charities, Jackson and a member of the Cathedral of St. Peter the Apostle.)

We all belonged to something bigger than ourselves

By Sr. Donna Gunn
When I was asked to write this article on the 10th anniversary of Katrina, my mind flooded with memories- memories of loss and devastation and inspiring memories of “heroes.”  So many faces and voices.  It was a time of my heart being torn by sadness and in the next moment inspired with hope.  I saw the kind of deep faith that surges when all else is taken away.
The Diocese of Jackson took in a quarter of a million survivors coming from the Coast and New Orleans.  I felt then and I feel now immense pride in how the diocese, parishes and faith filled individuals responded.
When I teach Catholic social teachings, I often begin with the reflection: “For whom do you weep?” Our response to Katrina was an evident sign that we weep with the most vulnerable, the lost, the lonely and the afraid.  I’m sure many of you can remember weeping, listening to the stories and being present to the fragile and broken.
For me it all began the day after Katrina when Linda Raff, executive director of Catholic Charities reminded me that one of my jobs was to be the diocesan disaster relief director – admittedly one who knew nothing about disaster relief.
Thus began a journey like no other. Linda Raff began attending daily meetings with other service providers to discuss what needed to be done, possibilities of collaboration and discussions of how to avoid duplicating efforts. Martha Mitternight was doing the same in the Catholic Charities satellite office in Natchez.  (Natchez doubled in size and some of our people had as many as 30 guests in their home.)
Catholic Charities staff  were told to make the huge number of calls asking for help their first priority.  We heard from people in towns near Hattiesburg who were trapped without food or water.  Our staff went to Wal-Mart and brought a truck load of needed supplies to that parish.  Thus began a delightful partnership with  Father Tommie Conway and the Diocese of Biloxi.
We would continue to send supplies down which were then distributed from tents pitched on the parish grounds.  When roads opened, they would direct some of those supplies directly to the coast. Remember, most communications were shut down, most cell phone towers destroyed. There was such devastation on the coast that much of the land was flat and barren. Only the Gulf would give anyone their bearing.  When I visited the main street of one of the coastal towns all I found standing was the cement bank vault.
Gradually as Linda attended daily meetings, two priorities for Catholic Charities became evident, emergency assistance and long term recovery.  Emergency assistance was particularly needed, especially as other agencies had limited or no funds to provide certain kinds of assistance.  We were able to set these priorities because we were the recipient of funds from a national Catholic Charities USA disaster collection, the largest in the national organization’s history.  We were blessed to be able to respond where others could not.
Supplies were coming in from all across the country.  Distributing those supplies had to be a priority. With the help of Roger Vincent, then the chair of the Catholic Charities board, we opened a warehouse.  For a long time, goods were just being stored in that warehouse because survivors had no place to put these goods.  After several complications, the largesse of good local businessmen and a wonderfully provident God, we were able to move the supplies into a recently closed grocery store which had left behind all the shelving and grocery carts.
Moving the supplies and setting things up like a department store would have been impossible without all the wonderful volunteers, many of whom where immigrant women the diocesan Office of Hispanic Ministry helped to transport. The folks coming and finding household supplies, clothing and toiletries is only a part of my memory.  I can still hear the delighted yelps in the aisles as neighbors met neighbors long thought missing or dead.  The warehouse became a refuge and a place of reconnection.
When I think of the warehouse, I have memories of the diocesan school office who, under the direction of Sister Deborah Hughes, made sure all the donated desks, texts, library books and school supplies were distributed to the schools in the most affected areas and to our schools in the diocese who were taking in tuition free those children Katrina had displaced.
About five years later, I was giving a mission talk at a parish in New Orleans. A couple introduced themselves as having moved up to Jackson in Katrina’s aftermath.  The woman had tears in her eyes and said they could never thank the Jackson Diocese enough for how it “saved” their children’s lives by taking them into a school and sustaining some sense of normalcy after the family had lost everything.
As Linda attended those daily meetings, the need for long term recovery case management services kept surfacing. All the agencies were responding to immediate needs, but who was there to journey with these survivors over the long haul and to help them re-create new lives?  Catholic Charities was the only agency to open a long term recovery office.  Social workers began case management helping clients set direction and long term goals; apply for FEMA; find housing and jobs; helping them re-locate with family, etc.  The Natchez satellite was doing the same and gradually, satellite offices were opened in Lincoln and Pike Counties.  The long term recovery office referred clients for counseling and mental health services.
So, this is a summary of my memories of some what we did – not complete by far.  For me, the 10th Anniversary of Katrina is an opportunity to look back and reflect on ourselves.  For whom did we weep?  What’s happened to them?   Have they been able to rebuild their lives and find hope again?  Widows and widowers know that grieving is a long process, not done in a year or two.  Let us pray for all Katrina survivors and hope that after 10 years they have found themselves again.
As a diocese, I believe the 10th anniversary of Katrina is a time to celebrate church. It was obvious during Katrina that we all belonged to something bigger than ourselves. There were the phone calls coming from around the country saying, “We are your brothers and sisters.  How can we help?”  Supplies pouring in with notes, “We want to share our blessings with you.” College students arriving en masse enthusiastic about using their gifts and youthful energy to “save” God’s people.
Parishioners responding to the Catholic Charities volunteer coordinator and coming from all across the diocese to work on the coast. In that process faithful from big parishes worked side by side with faithful in small parishes and missions.  No color lines; no economic status; only companions on the journey.  Individuals whose even in their “emptiness” were powerful inspirations.
(Sister Donna Gunn is now retired, but was Disaster Relief Coordinator for Catholic Charities during Katrina.)

She said “Welcome.” Since that day, we have been home

By Lindsay Blaylock
With two small overnight bags, photographs, diapers, and Our Lady of Prompt Succor’s intercession, Ron, myself, and our boys, Gabe (4) and Declan (7 months), evacuated our Metairie home at 2 a.m. Sunday.  We arrived at Ron’s parents’ Madison home at dawn. We watched as the levees broke and the city flooded.  I think I knew then I wouldn’t go home. Living in Jackson wasn’t part of that concept yet, but God had a plan.
A few days later, we learned that Ron had lost his job. He was running a photography studio whose roof had failed. His boss let us know that they would shelve the studio for the foreseeable future.
There was prayerful waiting – waiting to see when we could get back into the city, waiting to hear from friends and family about their plans, waiting for insurance questions to be answered, waiting for guidance.
My mom, a fellow evacuee, and I began attending daily Mass at St. Richard Church in Jackson. I felt peace. A posting in the parish bulletin alerted us to temporary work for Ron, a job supervising storm clean up crews.
Delays to return to the city persisted.  We heard if we could enroll our child in school for some stability, we should do so.   I walked into St Richard School and announced “I think I am here to register my son???” The secretary, Mrs. Georgia (Sckiets), compassionately walked me through the necessary paperwork.  As I handed it to her, she smiled at me and said “Welcome.” Since that day, we have been home.
Approaching his new classroom, I remember thinking, “He already has a school, God. We bought the uniforms already.”  The warmest smile greeted us that day.  Mrs (Tricia) Meyers put us at ease.  While I read about sleep behaviors and eating habits changing in kids post Katrina, I watched my son thrive.  In the next few weeks, he was learning to read and coming home happy.
One of the greatest gifts God gave us that fall was a lesson in material detachment.  We had practically nothing.  We didn’t have any of the comforts of our home.  The small apartment we rented was empty, save for a wicker love seat, an inflatable raft, a table with four chairs and our air mattresses.  It was amazing to sit there with nothing around you and feel fine with that.
Our home was a wet mess.  We lost a lot. Yet, Ron was already picking up freelance work in Jackson and reconnecting with friends.  He was determined to make the best of our time here. I was having trouble.
Gabe was invited to a classmate’ s party. With Mapquest not yet with us, I had directions on a looseleaf and got lost anyway.  We arrived 45 minutes late.  A woman named Deborah introduced herself as a New Orleanian and said, “You are Gabriel’s mom, right?  I’m so sorry.”  New Orleans is a small town and we discovered schools and neighborhoods in common….her husband was the parishioner who placed the job notice in the bulletin.  He grew up behind our flooded home … was the big tree still standing? I left the party with a live goldfish and a new friend.  From that moment on, she became a trusted advisor on everything from local pediatricians to po-boys.
And this kindness was repeated! At Halloween, a parent from the class called and invited us to trick-or-treat with them.  Although we had not ordered them, fair T-shirts arrived in the folder.   A baby blanket, extra lunch tickets, a jogging stroller at the white elephant sale.  People we would meet would say, “We’ve been praying for you. How can we help?” The “St R” community was a haven for us.
So, we decided to stay.
When Katrina came ashore and the levees broke, my heart broke with them.  Looking back, I can see God’s hand in all of it.   When my parents lived here briefly in the 70s, I was actually baptized at St. Richard.  I think God was leading us to life here.  I think He was leading us to the education He wanted for our children.  He chose a school built in the shadow of the church.  A place that lived its Catholic faith from administration down to the simplest art projects.  Everyone was generous with us in all the ways that matter.
We sing the Prayer of St. Richard after Communion at every weekly school Mass.  It opens with “Thanks be to you, my Lord Jesus Christ, for all the benefits that you have given me…” At this 10 year mark, I can say He has given our family so many.  The St. Richard community showed us Gospel charity in action – We were strangers and they welcomed us.
(Lindsay Blaylock works for the Special Kids program at St. Richard School. Her husband, Ron, is a photographer in Jackson. They are members of Jackson St. Richard Parish.)

There were three scriptures that kept me sane

By Karla Luke
On Aug. 28, 2005, I never would have believed that when we left our New Orleans home in anticipation of the approach of Hurricane Katrina that we were never to return. We had gone through those motions many times before and had always came back home! But, there was something very unusual about this time. The Saturday and Sunday before the arrival of the storm were deathly quiet; no birds, no squirrels, not even dogs barking. In retrospect, I should have known that it would be bad.
The events of the storm have been recounted by many people many times and our story is not all that different. We were blessed to have the financial and physical means to evacuate before the storm, we sat in traffic for hours, we weathered the storm in a hotel, and finally, prepared to return home only to learn that we could not go back. We had already checked out of the hotel before the emergency notification from the federal government asked that everyone stay put. So there we were, we could not go back to the hotel and could not go home to New Orleans.
My family and I were in limbo until a kind and gracious “sister-friend” opened her home to us for two months. It was so very hard. The loss was incredible. Not that we had a million dollar mansion, but it was our home. Not that I worked for a Fortune 500 company, but it was my job. In the weeks and months to come, the loss would only intensify as we made important decisions that would soon become final. Since I was a little child, saying goodbye was always difficult for me. I had to learn to say goodbye over and over again: to the material things: the house, the job, a car, clothes, furniture; and to the emotional: my wedding photos and baby pictures, mementos, friends and most of all to my family.
There were three scriptures that kept me sane during Hurricane Katrina and the aftermath: “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” (Philippians 4:13); “For I know the plans that I have for you,’ declares the Lord, ‘plans for welfare and not for calamity to give you a future and a hope.” (Jeremiah 29:11); and “we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose.” (Romans 8:28). I recited them daily, sometimes even hourly. They became my evening prayers before I went to sleep and my morning prayers when I arose.
“I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” I could not understand why this happened. As a middle school science teacher, I certainly understood the geography and the topography of New Orleans, so comprehending that part was logical. What I could not fathom was how to even begin to start again and pick up the pieces of our lives after citywide flooding that destroyed a great part of the community. I was weak and very sad.
This scripture gave my husband and me the courage to make those hard decisions, to look into the faces of our children to reassure them that everything would be okay. It was not easy but we were able to do it because of the reassuring presence of God. Each morning I woke up was proof that scripture was true.
“For I know the plans that I have for you,’ declares the Lord, ‘plans for welfare and not for calamity to give you a future and a hope.” (Jeremiah 29:11). I could not help but think that God removed us from one situation to place us in a better situation. I had to take comfort in realizing that the all-knowing and all-powerful Father had a better plan for us than the one that we had for ourselves.  Through this disastrous event, we were able to purchase a beautiful new home, and we were blessed because my husband’s company transferred him to an office in Jackson with a great position. My children entered new schools and made lifelong friends. Through the “calamity,” we found a hopeful future.
“And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose.” (Romans 8:28). The experience of going through Hurricane Katrina was horrendous for me. I did not know if ever a day would come that I would not cry, be sad or sick to my stomach, but God used the horrors of that storm to give me a new faith. I totally leaned on God (my strong husband too) to see me through this time.  “And He who sits on the throne said, ‘Behold, I am making all things new.’ And He said, ‘Write, for these words are faithful and true.’” (Revelation 21:5). And God did.
One thing that I noticed in flood ravaged New Orleans when we were able to return to inspect the damage to our home and property was the Blessed Virgin Mary. I observed that in all of the places where the statue of Mary was displayed, there may have been damage to the property but the statue of Mary stood straight and unharmed. We always prayed to Our Lady of Prompt Succor for protection from storms. Throughout Mary’s life, she trusted in God and he took care of her. The subliminal message sent by that visual was to be strong in faith and God will protect you, even if you don’t understand everything at the time.
Since coming to Jackson 10 years ago, many things have changed for us. My husband continues to work for his company and has been graciously received into the community. My children have graduated from high school and college and have wonderful jobs. Our family bond could not be stronger.  I have continued my work in Catholic schools as a teacher and administrator, now serving in the Office of Catholic Education. I feel so blessed and happy in this state of my life. Every now and then, when I think of how it used to be, I may get a little sad. I still miss my family and friends but the time spent visiting has become much more precious and meaningful. The quantity of time we spend together has decreased but the quality of the relationships has increased.
We must continue to pray for all of the people who were and continued to be affected by the destruction of the storm. Many people lost their lives and still others have not been able to recover financially or emotionally from the effects of the storm. To those people we must offer hope for a new and brighter future.
I continue to be eternally grateful to all who helped us along the way: my “sister-friend” who provided shelter and support, the Jackson, Mississippi community, especially St. Therese Parish who welcomed us and became our church family and God who continues to guide me and keep safe. “Behold, I am making all things new. Write, for these words are faithful and true.” These words are indeed faithful and true.
(Karla Luke is the coordinator of operations for the Office of Catholic Schools in the Diocese of Jackson and a member of Jackson St. Therese Parish.)

Hope Surges On: Reflections on Hurricane Katrina ten years later

Eighteen hundred lives lost. A million people displaced, some for years. Sixteen billion dollars in insurance claims. Thousands of homes reduced to rubble or flooded beyond repair. Dozens of churches and schools inundated. A decade ago this week we were still reeling as the pictures of what Hurricane Katrina left came into sharper focus every day. As the chaos of the actual storm subsided, we faced the enormity of what it would take to make things right.
Everyone in this region has a Katrina story. For some, it’s a story of luck – a close call. For others, it is a story of loss and grief, but for many, the story is resilience. As we remember the anniversary of Hurricane Katrina, we want to honor your stories, especially the ones still unfolding. This issue of Mississippi Catholic is dedicated to letting people tell their experience during and since Hurricane Katrina. The focus is riding the surge of hope, seeing new life, being thankful for the generosity of our neighbors.
We cannot possibly tell all your stories, but we would love to hear them. We tried to include the perspective of some of our leaders who had to wrap their heads around how to minister to the coastal diaspora as well as some of those who sought and found help here in the Diocese of Jackson. We hope we have honored all those whose lives took a turn during the last week of August 2005.

Personal Reflections:
By Karla Luke  There were three scriptures that kept me sane
By Lindsay Blaylock  She said “Welcome.” Since that day, we have been home

First Response:
By Sr. Donna Gunn   We all belonged to something bigger than ourselves
By Linda Raff    The generosity of people … brought help and hope to so many
By Father David O’Connor    Our visitors would need hospitality for an extended period

A Plan Emerges:
By Msgr. Elvin Sunds   Katrina brought out what is best and noblest in us …
Sr. Deborah Hughes   Opportunity to make Gospel teachings truly come alive

Shepherds reflect:
Bishop Joseph Latino    We, as the community of faith, are the hands and face of God …
Bishop William Houck   Our memories help us to be grateful …
By Archbishop Thomas Rodi   A resiliency that comes from deep within
By Bishop Roger Morin   I oftentimes heard spontaneous prayers of praise to God

CALENDAR OF EVENTS

SPIRITUAL ENRICHMENT
AMORY St. Helen Parish, book discussion group, “Go Set a Watchman,” Monday, Sept. 14, at noon at the parish hall. All parishioners are invited.
BATESVILLE St. Mary Parish, Knights of Columbus Silver Rose Program, Thursday, Sept. 17, during the 5:30 p.m. Mass. A rosary will be recited for the intention of Respect Life. St. Mary and Sardis St. John Parish will receive one of the six Silver Roses which are traveling across North America – from Canada through the United States to Mexico.
CLEVELAND Our Lady of Victories Parish, ladies seven-week Bible study on the book “At prayer with Mary,” Tuesday, Sept. 8, at 6 p.m. in the parish center. Details: Jamey Gainspoletti, 662-719-6802.
JACKSON St. Peter Cathedral, faith formation five-week class, “Rediscover Catholicism: A spiritual guide to living with passion and purpose,” begins Sunday, Sept. 20, at 9:15 a.m. in the Cathedral Center.
MERIDIAN St. Patrick Parish young adult group, six-session on “Untold blessings” Wednesday, Sept. 9, from 6:15 – 7:30 p.m. Nursery provided.
NATCHEZ St. Mary Basilica, “Come and See,” Thursday, Sept. 17, with a repeat on Thursday, Sept. 24, at 6 p.m. in the basilica. For practicing Catholics, returning Catholics, or those who are curious.
PEARL St. Jude Parish, “A biblical walk through the Mass, begins Sept. 13, from 9:45 – 10:45 a.m. in the parish hall.

PARISH, SCHOOLS & FAMILY EVENTS
BOONEVILLE St. Francis Parish, annual yard sale,  Friday and Saturday, Oct. 2-3. Bring donations to the parish house, and let Sheila Przesmicki, lay ecclesial minister, know if you can help prepare or work on either day of the sale.
BROOKHAVEN St. Francis Parish, blood drive, Sunday, Sept. 13, from 10 a.m. – 1 p.m. in the parish center.
CLARKSDALE Immaculate Conception Parish, celebration of its 70th anniversary, Sunday, Sept. 13, at the 8:30 a.m. Mass. Bishop Joseph Kopacz will join parishioners for the celebration. Former priests, religious sisters and brothers, alumni of  Immaculate Conception School and the general public are invited. Details: Josephine Rhymes, 662-902-1846
CLARKSDALE St. Elizabeth Parish, Sunday School meeting for seniors and parents of seniors, Sunday, Sept. 13, at 6 p.m. to discuss the new youth program.
COLUMBUS Annunciation Parish, baptismal preparation class, Sunday, Sept. 20, at 4 p.m. in the Activities Center. RSVP: Parish office,662-328-2927.
GLUCKSTADT St. Joseph Parish, GermanFest, Sunday, Sept. 27, from 11 a.m. – 5 p.m. on the parish grounds. Admission and parking are free. Advance meal tickets are $6 and $7 the day of the festival. Details: 601-856-2054.
GREENVILLE St. Joseph Parish fair, Tuesday, Sept. 15, beginning at 5 p.m. Spaghetti dinners are $10 each.
GREENWOOD Immaculate Heart of Mary Parish, birthday party at Golden Age Nursing Home, Saturday, Sept. 12, at 2 p.m. Volunteers are needed. Details: Joan Nored, 662-455-4155.
–Presentation of Saida and George Rashmawi about the Christian struggle in the Holy Land, Saturday, Sept. 12, during the 6 p.m. Mass and on Sunday, Sept. 13, at the 9 a.m. They are volunteers members from the Roman Catholic Church in Bethlehem.
– At St. Francis Parish, on Sunday, Sept. 13, during the 11 a.m. Mass.
GRENADA St. Peter Parish, rosary walk workdays Mondays Sept 7, 14, and 21 from 6 – 7 p.m. The rosary in stepping stones will be behind the Family Life Center.
HERNANDO Holy Spirit Parish, Fall Bazaar, Saturday, Sept. 12, from 9 a.m. – 3 p.m. Booth rental, $25. Call Barbara Dean, 901-486-6470. Volunteers needed. Details: Barbara Smith, 662-233-4833 -901-413-8102.
JACKSON St. Richard Parish, monthly Bereavement Support Group, Thursday, Sept. 10, at 6:30 p.m. in the Mercy Room. Judy Bryant, chaplain at Fitness Lady, will be the guest speaker. Details: Suzie Cranston, 601-982-5464, or email, ncmcghee@bellsouth.net.
MADISON St. Anthony School Grandparents’ Day Mass, Friday, Sept. 18, at 9 a.m.
– Silver Rose with the Knights of Columbus, Wednesday, Sept. 23, during Pledge & Prayer.
– Open House – Sunday, Oct. 18, from 2 – 4 p.m.
MERIDIAN St. Patrick Parish, Our Lady of Fatima Sodality meeting, Sunday, Sept. 13, at 6 p.m. Deacon Jason Johnston is the guest speaker. All women of the parish are invited.
PEARL St. Jude Parish, “Date Night” hosted by the Knights of Columbus, Saturday, Sept. 26, following the 5:30 p.m. Mass. Tickets are $35 per couple. Live music, open bar, and a catered dinner. Details: Danny Nelson, 601-549-6783.
SHAW St. Francis Parish, sister’s appreciation day, Sunday, Sept. 20, at noon.
PHILADELPHIA Holy Cross Parish, religious education kickoff celebration, trip to Lake Tiak O’Khata, Sunday, Sept. 23, leaving after the 10:30 a.m. Mass. Lunch will be provided. Cost for parents is $16, free for children registered for religious education classes.

‘MANY SAINTS, ONE CHURCH’
GREENWOOD – Diocese of Jackson Black Catholic Day of Reflection, Friday and Saturday, Nov. 6-7, at St. Francis of Assisi Parish. Sessions with Dr. Timone Davis, retreat minister, youth sessions, prayer, Liturgy, vendors. Cost is $15 for pre-registration and $20 at the door.

‘FRIENDS OF THE POOR’
JACKSON – The Society of St. Vincent De Paul – St. Martin De Porres Conference, is hosting a “Friends of the Poor Walk” on Saturday, Sept. 19, at 7 a.m. The 5K walk begins and ends at Christ the King Church, 2303 JR Lynch Street. No registration fee is required but donations are accepted. Individuals pledging a minimum of $25 will receive a T-shirt. Details: www.fopwalk.org, Carrie Robinson, 601-238-0872.

SQUAT & GOBBLE
JACKSON Catholic Charities annual Squat & Gobble, Thursday, Nov. 13, at Old Capitol Inn (new location). Benefits Catholic Charities Domestic Violence Office. Details: Tommy, 601-955-1677.

El dia del trabajo subraya la lucha por la justicia

Por Obispo Joseph Kopacz
Las familias han estado recibiendo mucha atención recientemente en el mundo católico. El sínodo extraordinario de la familia volverá a reunirse en el otoño, y durante la tradicional audiencia general de los miércoles en la Plaza de San Pedro, el Papa Francisco esá ofreciendo una catequesis sobre la familia. En su encíclica, Laudato Si’, el Papa San Francisco enseña que de todos los grupos que desempeñan un papel en el bienestar de la sociedad y ayudan a garantizar el respeto de la dignidad humana, “sobresaliente entre ellos es la familia, como célula básica de la sociedad” (n. 157).
Por lo tanto, en este Día del Trabajo, tenemos la oportunidad de reflexionar sobre cómo el trabajo digno con un salario esencial es crítico para ayudar a que nuestras familias y nuestra sociedad prospere. En su encíclica, Laudatio Si, el Papa Francisco nos enseña que el trabajo debe permitir al trabajador desarrollarse y florecer como persona. El trabajo también debe proporcionar los medios para que las familias puedan prosperar. “El trabajo es una necesidad, una parte del significado de la vida sobre la tierra, un camino de crecimiento, desarrollo humano y realización personal” (n. 128).  El trabajo con dignidad y los frutos de esa labor nutren a las familias, las comunidades, y al bien común.
El año pasado el Papa Francisco canonizó a San Juan XXIII y a San Juan Pablo II. Ambos han hecho enormes contribuciones a la doctrina social de la Iglesia sobre la dignidad del trabajo y su importancia al florecimiento humano. San Juan Pablo II indicó que el trabajo es “probablemente la clave esencial de toda la cuestión social” (Laborem Exercens, No. 3).  San Juan XXIII destacó que los trabajadores tienen “derecho a un salario que se determina de acuerdo con los preceptos de la justicia” (Pacem in Terris, No. 20).
Es evidente para aquellos que tienen ojos ver que el capitalismo ha cosechado enormes beneficios desde la fundación de nuestra nación. Muchos tienen un nivel de vida que es inimaginable en muchas partes del mundo, que es en gran parte debido a los recursos naturales de nuestro país, la libertad arraigada en nuestra constitución, la capacidad empresarial, genio creativo, el trabajo duro y el deseo de tener una vida mejor para nuestros hijos. Por otro lado, es una variada historia cuando consideramos los efectos de la codicia desenfrenada, el talón de Aquiles del capitalismo. El medio ambiente a menudo ha sido objeto de saqueos y pillajes, hombres y mujeres han sido aplastados por la rueda, usando una frase del autor, Herman Hesse, y la pobreza sigue siendo intratable en muchas comunidades de nuestro país.
Cada generación debe comprometerse a si misma a una sociedad que sea más justa y solidaria, por lo menos si vamos a reclamar que somos parte del plan de Dios, promoviendo el mandato divino de co-trabajadores en la tierra, la joya de la creación. ¿Hay alguna duda de que las familias en los Estados Unidos están luchando hoy? Muchos matrimonios tienen el peso aplastante de los horarios impredecibles de varios trabajos, que hacen imposible tiempo suficiente para nutrir a los hijos, para la fe y la comunidad. Millones de niños viven cerca o en  pobreza en este país. Muchos de ellos son niños con llave de casa, que vuelven a sus viviendas vacías todos los días mientras los padres de familia trabajan para sobrevivir. Además, algunas parejas demoran intencionalmente el matrimonio, mientras que el desempleo y los trabajos de baja recompensa hacen la vida de una familia estable difícil de ver.
El Arzobispo Thomas Wenski de Miami en su declaración el Día del Trabajador en nombre de la Conferencia de Obispos Católicos de los Estados Unidos (USCCB) pinta el siguiente inquietante panorama. “La tasa de desempleo se ha reducido, pero mucho de eso es debido al hecho de que la gente simplemente ha dejado de buscar empleo, no porque hayan encontrado trabajo a tiempo completo. ¿La mayoría de los empleos proporcionan suficiente salario, prestaciones de jubilación, estabilidad o seguridad de la familia?
Muchas familias están encadenadas a empleos a medio tiempo para pagar sus cuentas. Las oportunidades para los trabajadores jóvenes están en declive. La tasa de desempleo de los adultos jóvenes en Estados Unidos, a más del 13 por ciento, es más del doble del promedio  nacional (6,2 por ciento).  Hay el doble de personas que están buscando trabajo como hay trabajos disponibles, y eso no incluye los siete millones de trabajadores a medio tiempo que quieren trabajar a tiempo completo. Millones de personas más, especialmente los desempleados de mucho tiempo, están desanimados y abatidos”.
Cuando la dignidad de la persona y la estabilidad de las familias son fuertes motivadores, y no avaricia, o un margen de beneficio insostenible, o la presión de los accionistas, puntos de luz pueden soportar, incluso en tiempos difíciles.
Yo era párroco en el área de Pocono en la Diócesis de Scranton cuando la última recesión golpeó duro. Uno de los miembros de la parroquia, propietario de una empresa con un par de docenas de trabajadores, compartió conmigo en una conversación que era una lucha conseguir suficientes contratos para mantener a su personal trabajando, pero que ese era su principal objetivo. Dios lo había bendecido y tenía suficiente riqueza para vivir bien, como él mencionó, e incluso si los beneficios de su negocio declinaran profundamente, él iba a asegurarse  que sus hombres pudieran trabajar y cuidar de sus familias.
El confíaba que la recesión económica mejoraría. Su confianza estaba basada en Dios y en la dignidad de la persona. Esta ética de vida es una rareza en las grandes empresas y corporaciones multinacionales, y esto es lo que el Papa Francisco describió como el estiércol del diablo del capitalismo en su reciente visita a Ecuador, cuando los beneficios borran la dignidad de la persona humana.
Nuestro desafío en este Día del Trabajo es el de levantarse al desafío de la solidaridad de Jesús cuando ordenó, “Amaos los unos a los otros. Como yo os he amado, así amaos también vosotros los unos a los otros” (Juan 13:34 ).
El Catecismo de la Iglesia Católica enseña que, “los problemas socioe-conómicos sólo pueden ser resueltos con la ayuda de todas las formas de solidaridad: la solidaridad de los pobres entre si mismos, entre los ricos y los pobres, los trabajadores entre sí, entre los empleadores y los empleados de una empresa, la solidaridad entre las naciones y los pueblos” (No. 1941).  Ya que cada uno de nosotros está hecho a la imagen de Dios y obligado por su amor, poseyendo una profunda dignidad humana, tenemos la obligación de amar y honrar esa dignidad entre nosotros y especialmente en nuestro trabajo.
En el mejor de los casos, los sindicatos y las instituciones como ellos encarnan solidaridad mientras promueven el bien común. Ayudan a los trabajadores “no sólo tienen más, pero, sobre todo, para ser más…  y realizar más plenamente su humanidad en todos los sentidos” (Laborem Exercens, nO 20).
Sí, los sindicatos y las asociaciones de trabajadores son imperfectos, como son todas las instituciones humanas. Pero el derecho de los trabajadores a asociarse libremente es apoyado por enseñanza de la Iglesia con el fin de proteger a los trabajadores y moverlos, especialmente a los más jóvenes, mediante la orientación y el aprendizaje, hacia empleos decentes con salarios justos.
Compartimos un hogar común como parte de una grande y única familia, para que la dignidad de los trabajadores, la estabilidad de las familias y el estado de salud de las comunidades estén todas interconectadas. ¿Cómo podemos avanzar la obra de Dios, en las palabras del salmista, “hace justicia a los oprimidos y da de comer a los hambrientos, [y] da libertad a los cautivos” (Salmo 146:7)?
Estas preguntas son difíciles de hacer, pero hay que hacerlas. La reflexión y acción individual es fundamental. Tenemos la necesidad de una profunda conversión de corazón en todos los niveles de nuestra vida. Examinemos nuestras opciones, y demandemos para nosotros mismos, y de otro espíritus de gratitud, auténtica relación y una verdadera inquietud.
Que Dios bendiga la obra de nuestras manos, corazones y mentes.

Labor Day highlights struggle for justice

By Bishop Joseph Kopacz
Families have been receiving a lot of attention recently in the Catholic World. The Extraordinary Synod on the family will reconvene in the Fall, and during the traditional Wednesday audience at Saint Peter’s, Pope Francis is offering a catechesis on the family. In his encyclical, Laudato Si’, Pope Francis teaches that of all the groups that play a role in the welfare of society and help ensure respect for human dignity, “outstanding among [them] is the family, as the basic cell of society” (no. 157).
Therefore, this Labor Day, we have the opportunity to reflect on how dignified work with a living wage is critical to helping our families and our greater society thrive. In Laudato Si Pope Francis teaches that Labor should allow the worker to develop and flourish as a person. Work also must provide the means for families to prosper. “Work is a necessity, part of the meaning of life on this earth, a path to growth, human development and personal fulfillment” (no. 128). Dignity-filled work and the fruits of that labor nourish families, communities and the common good.
Last year Pope Francis canonized Saint John XXIII and Saint John Paul II. Both made immense contributions to the social teaching of the Church on the dignity of labor and its importance to human flourishing. St. John Paul II called work “probably the essential key to the whole social question” (Laborem Exercens, No. 3).  St. John XXIII stressed workers are “entitled to a wage that is determined in accordance with the precepts of justice” (Pacem in Terris, No. 20).
It is evident for those who have eyes to see that capitalism has reaped enormous benefits since our nation’s founding.  Many have a standard of living that is unimaginable in many parts of the world, that is due in large part to the natural resources of our great land, the liberty rooted in our constitution, entrepreneurship, creative genius, hard work and the desire to have a better life for our children. On the other hand, it is a checkered story when we consider the effects of unbridled greed, the Achilles heel of Capitalism. The environment too often has been pillaged and plundered, men and women have been crushed beneath the wheel, to borrow a phrase from the author, Herman Hesse, and poverty remains intractable in too many communities in our nation.
Each generation must recommit itself to a society that is more just and compassionate, at least if we are going to claim that we are part of God’s plan, furthering the divine mandate as co-workers on the earth, the jewel of creation. Is there any question that families in America are struggling today? Too many marriages bear the crushing weight of unpredictable schedules from multiple jobs, which make impossible adequate time for nurturing children, faith, and community.. Millions of children live in or near poverty in this country. Many of them are latch key kids, returning to empty homes every day as their working parents struggle to make ends meet. Moreover, couples intentionally delay marriage, as unemployment and substandard work make a vision of stable family life difficult to see.
Archbishop Thomas Wenski of Miami in his Labor Day Statement on behalf of the USCCB paints the following troubling picture: “The unemployment rate has declined, yet much of that is due to people simply giving up looking for a job, not because they have found full-time work. Do the majority of jobs provide sufficient wages, retirement benefits, stability or family security. Far too many families are stringing together part-time jobs to pay the bills. Opportunities for younger workers are in serious decline. The unemployment rate for young adults in America, at more than 13 percent, is more than double the national average (6.2 percent).  There are twice as many unemployed job seekers as there are available jobs, and that does not include the seven million part-time workers who want to work full-time. Millions more, especially the long-term unemployed, are discouraged and dejected.”
When the dignity of the person and the stability of families are strong motivators, and not greed, or an unsustainable profit margin, or the pressure from stockholders, points of light can endure, even in tough times. I was a pastor in the Pocono area of the Diocese of Scranton when the last recession hit hard.
One of the parishioners, a business owner, with a workforce of a couple of dozen men, shared with me in conversation that it was a struggle to secure sufficient contracts to keep his men working, but that was his primary goal. God had blessed him and he had sufficient wealth to live with confidence, as he reflected, and even if his business’s margin of profit took a big hit, he was going to make sure that his men could work and take care of their families.
He trusted that the economic downturn would come around. His trust was rooted in God and the dignity of the person. This ethic for living is a rarity in large businesses and multinational corporations, and this is what Pope Francis describes as the devil’s dung of capitalism in his recent visit to Ecuador, when profit obliterates the dignity of the human person.
Our challenge this Labor Day is to rise to the challenge of solidarity posed by Jesus when he commanded, “Love one another. As I have loved you, so you also should love one another” (Jn 13:34).
The Catechism of the Catholic Church teaches, “Socio-economic problems can be resolved only with the help of all the forms of solidarity: solidarity of the poor among themselves, between rich and poor, of workers among themselves, between employers and employees in a business, solidarity among nations and peoples” (No. 1941). Since each of us is made in the image of God and bound by His love, possessing a profound human dignity, we have an obligation to love and honor that dignity in one another, and especially in our work.
At their best, labor unions and institutions like them embody solidarity and subsidiarity while advancing the common good. They help workers “not only have more, but above all be more… [and] realize their humanity more fully in every respect” (Laborem Exercens, No. 20).
Yes, unions and worker associations are imperfect, as are all human institutions. But the right of workers to freely associate is supported by Church teaching in order to protect workers and move them – especially younger ones, through mentoring and apprenticeships–into decent jobs with just wages.
We share one common home as part of a larger, single family, so the dignity of workers, the stability of families, and the health of communities are all intertwined. How can we advance God’s work, in the words of the Psalmist, as he “secures justice for the oppressed, gives food to the hungry, [and] sets captives free” (Ps 146:7)?
These are difficult questions to ask, yet we must ask them. Individual reflection and action is critical. We are in need of a profound conversion of heart at all levels of our lives. Let us examine our choices, and demand for ourselves, and of one another spirits of gratitude, authentic relationship, and true concern.
May God bless the work of our hands, hearts, and minds.

Pastoral Assignment

Upon the recommendation of Father Stephen Rehrauer, CSsR, provincal for the Redemptorists of the Denver Province, Father John Gouger, CSsR, is appointed to join the Redemptorist community serving the Mississippi Delta based out of Greenwood. Fathers Patrick Keyes and Thanh Nguyen, who were part of that the community, will leave the diocese, effective Sept. 1.
+ Bishop Joseph Kopacz
Diocese of Jackson

SAIL group offers support to grieving families

By Maureen Smith
PEARL – When Abby Nelson moved from Hattiesburg to Pearl, she brought a mission with her to comfort women suffering from infertility or the loss of a child. The effort is very personal to her since she went through it herself. “I feel like I have a purpose for my pain,” said Nelson.
“My husband Danny and I found out we were pregnant with twin boys in November of 2008,” she said. An ultrasound revealed a problem with one of the babies. Despite a trip to Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia for delivery and care, Daniel Kace only lived an hour on his birth day, June 22, 2009. His brother Cain was fine. “We had Cain so I didn’t have time to grieve or process. When he was about nine months old, it all hit me,” said Nelson.
She joined a group at her Hattiesburg church called Support for Adoption, Infertility and Loss (SAIL). “It gave me a place to talk about thing with someone who was like-minded,” she explained. The group is for any woman experiencing infertility, a miscarriage, the loss of a child at any stage of life or going through the process of adoption. “God was at the center of the group, and that’s what I loved about it.”
“When we moved to Jackson this past June we joined St. Jude, the parish where I grew up and I knew I wanted to bring the group with me,” Nelson said. She spoke with her pastor, Father Jeffrey Waldrep, and he was very supportive.
“People don’t realize sometimes what a sensitive wound people are carrying around,” said Father Waldrep. “When you lose a child what you carry around is more than just grief. It’s that uncertainty – particularly if you don’t have another child – the pain of the reality of all the ‘what ifs,’ the loss of possibility,” he said. “This group lets people know that someone cares, not just in the immediate aftermath, but in the long-term. It lets people process those feelings,” added Father Waldrep. He said when a child dies, the family is often inundated with care right after the incident, but as time goes by, the family may still need an outlet for grief.
One group member, who wished to remain anonymous, agreed. She started attending in January after losing twins in Dec., 21 weeks into her pregnancy. Father Waldrep visited the couple in the hospital and told them about the group. “Your family and friends try to make you feel better, and they are very sincere, but they can’t help you sometimes,” she said. “The world will give you about a month and then they want you to go back to normal,” she said. Attending the meetings “lets you be yourself and feel what you are feeling,” said the woman. “I can talk to them about things I might not want to talk about to other people,” she added.
Parishioners at St. Jude helped SAIL put together memory boxes with a baby blanket, booties, a cross, a candle, a prayer book and contact information for the SAIL group. Nelson approached local hospitals and doctors herself to ask them to give the boxes to families who lose babies.
The group member said she appreciates the boxes because she ended up making her own box after she lost her babies. “I came home from the hospital and spread all this stuff on the kitchen table – the nurses had given us footprints and baby blankets and other things – and I thought, I want to keep this, but I just can’t look at it right now.” She had a box of her own and put her treasured baby items into it.
SAIL is faith-based, but the group welcomes any woman, regardless of her religious affiliation. “This is a good place for us to share our stories without being judged,” said Nelson. The group uses a book about grief and faith called “Holding on to Hope.”
Kathryn Bridges and Kelli McCloskey run the group in Hattiesburg that Nelson first attended. Bridges lost her son the day before her due date. “The main reason it was important to me is I had several friends and acquaintances who reached out to me who had gone through something similar. It helped me tremendously,” said Bridges. She prayed about what to do next and decided to become involved as a SAIL group leader. Her group coordinates a balloon release in honor of the national day devoted to stillborn and miscarriage awareness and hosts a prayer service in December for families who have lost babies.
SAIL has a closed facebook group and an email in addition to the in-person meetings. To find out more about the meetings email sailcentralms@yahoo.com.