By Bishop Joseph Kopacz
Over the past month the darkness of the abortion industry has been brought into the light of day in chilling and often gruesome detail. Videos portrayed the reality of abortion, the direct assault upon human life in the earliest stages, as well as the flippant and casual attitude of Planned Parenthood executives pricing the remains.
There are many who do not want to view this repulsive reality because it is hard to fathom the descent into barbarity that has occurred in sectors of our society, a fact that Saint Pope John Paul II called the Culture of Death more than 20 years ago in his encyclical, Veritatis Splendor. Others, in their fanatical support for Planned Parenthood refuse to see the truth, recalling the words of Jesus in the third chapter of Saint John. “Everyone who does evil hates the light, and will not come into the light for fear that his or her deeds will be exposed. But whoever lives by the truth comes into the light, so that it may be seen plainly that what they have done has been done in the sight of God.” (Jn. 3, 20-21)
In Catholic social justice teaching, the first of seven principles, given priority of place, is The Life and Dignity of the Human Person. This has been a long-standing commitment of the Catholic Church, and the United States Catholic Conference of Bishops teaches as follows: “Human life is sacred and the dignity of the human person is the foundation of a moral vision for society. This belief is the foundation of all the principles of our social teaching. In our society, human life is under direct attack from abortion and euthanasia.”
People of reason and good faith should be able to come to a greater consensus that the destruction and selling of the unborn is a very brittle pillar for any claim for a moral vision of society. The “throwaway culture” so often deplored by Pope Francis, has once again raised its ugly head.
For many years as a theology teacher at the junior high level in several Catholic Schools in the Diocese of Scranton, I taught human development to our young adolescents. An essential component of the curriculum was to learn about fetal development and the development of unborn life, along with the inseparable link between sexuality, sexual behavior, and the conception of a new life. In the late 80’s through the mid 90’s I used the video, “The Miracle of Life” that revealed the beauty and complexity of human life from the moment of conception to natural birth. The words of Psalm 139 could have been the narration throughout this hour long production. “For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb.” (Psalm 139,13) In the state of such awareness, the Psalmist responds with great joy. “I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made.” (14)
This is the reverence for life that Elizabeth rejoiced over when the baby leapt for joy in her womb in the presence of the author of all creation residing in the womb of Mary. This is the reverence for life that the Planned Parenthood executives and physicians are mocking in the recent expose. We all pay a price when human life becomes a means to an end, in this case, profit and experimentation. In this light, is human trafficking so surprising, or is it merely the next phase of exploitation and profit? To complete the circle, at the end of the life cycle, euthanasia disposes of the weak and infirm. Should we be aghast, or acquiescent to the logic of the culture of death that is crippling our reverence for human life, the crown of God’s creation? It’s the web of life, and in the words of the poet, John Dunne, “never send to know for whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee.”
As mentioned earlier, the Life and Dignity of the Human Person is the first principle of the Catholic Church’s social justice tradition. There are six other dimensions about which the Church is also passionate. We only have to look to the social justice work within our own diocese, past and present, to recognize these pro-life labors that give hope and new life to many who find life burdensome. But the intentional destruction of unborn human life can never be placed on the scales as inevitable collateral damage. The Church will continue to be a prophetic voice in our world, fighting the good fight and keeping the faith.
The unrelenting commitment of many in our Church and in our society on behalf of the pro-life cause for the unborn has not been in vain. Currently in the United States there are more than 3,000 pregnancy help centers that outnumber abortion clinics by six to one. This is a culture of life. I believe that one compelling reason for this trend is that modern technology has revealed the humanity of fetal life. From the moment of conception, human life is a complex wonder. In addition, medical advancements have rolled back viability outside the womb to under six months in some cases.
This is a crisis of conscience for many in our society, and pressure will be brought to bear to roll back the abortion industry that exploits women and their unborn life. The Catholic Church will be a strong voice towards this end. A critical part of this campaign for all of us is faithful prayer that is the fertile ground for conversion, and the inspiration for greater courage and creativity on behalf of those who have no voice. In the words of Saint Paul, “the Kingdom of Heaven is not about eating and drinking, but about justice, peace, and joy in the Holy Spirit.” (Romans 14,17)
Category Archives: Columnists
Eucharistic prayer over awakening world
IN EXILE
By Father Ron Rolheiser, OMI
On the Feast of the Transfiguration in 1923, Pierre Teilhard de Chardin found himself alone at sunrise in the Ordos desert in China, watching the sun spread its orange and red light across the horizon. He was deeply moved, humanly and religiously. What he most wanted to do in response was to celebrate Mass, to somehow consecrate the whole world to God. But he had no altar, no bread, and no wine. So he resolved to make the world itself his altar and what was happening in the world the bread and the wine for his Mass. Here, in paraphrase, is the prayer he prayed over the world, awakening to the sun that morning in China.
O God, since I have neither bread, nor wine, nor altar, I will raise myself beyond these symbols and make the whole earth my altar and on it will offer to you all the labors and sufferings of the world.
As the rising sun moves as a sheet of fire across the horizon the earth wakes, trembles, and begins its daily tasks. I will place on my paten, O God, the harvest to be won by this renewal of labor. Into my chalice I will pour all the sap which is to be pressed out this day from the earth’s fruits. My paten and my chalice are the depths of a soul laid widely open to all the forces which in a moment will rise up from every corner of the earth and converge upon the Spirit.
Grant me, Lord, to remember and make mystically present all those whom the light is now awakening to this new day. As I call these to mind, I remember first those who have shared life with me: family, community, friends and colleagues. And I remember as well, more vaguely but all-inclusively, the whole of humanity, living and dead, and, not least, the physical earth itself, as I stand before you, O God, as a piece of this earth, as that place where the earth opens and closes to you.
And so, O God, over every living thing which is to spring up, to grow, to flower, to ripen during this day, I say again the words: “This is my body.” And over every death-force which waits in readiness to corrode, to wither, to cut down, I speak again your words which express the supreme mystery of faith: “This is my blood.” On my paten, I hold all who will live this day in vitality, the young, the strong, the healthy, the joy-filled; and in my chalice, I hold all that will be crushed and broken today as that vitality draws its life. I offer you on this all-embracing altar everything that is in our world, everything that is rising and everything that is dying, and ask you to bless it.
And our communion with you will not be complete, will not be Christian, if, together with the gains which this new day brings, we do not also accept, in our own name and in the name of the world, those processes, hidden or manifest, of enfeeblement, of aging, and of death, which unceasingly consume the universe, to its salvation or its condemnation. Lord, God, we deliver ourselves up with abandon to those fearful forces of dissolution which, we blindly believe, will this cause our narrow egos to be replaced by your divine presence. We gather into a single prayer both our delight in what we have and our thirst for what we lack.
Lord, lock us into the deepest depths of your heart; and then, holding us there, burn us, purify us, set us on fire, sublimate us, till we become utterly what you would have us to be, through the annihilation of all selfishness inside us. Amen.
For Teilhard this, of course, was not to be confused with the celebration of the Eucharist in a church, rather he saw it as a “prolongation” or “extension” of the Eucharist, where the Body and Blood of Christ becomes incarnate in a wider bread and wine, namely, in the entire physical world which manifests the mystery of God’s flesh shining through all that is.
Teilhard was an ordained, Roman Catholic, priest, covenanted by his ordination to celebrate Mass for the world, to place bread on a paten and wine in a chalice and offer them to God for the world. We too, all of us Christians, by our baptism, are made priests and, like Teilhard, are covenanted to offer Mass for the world, that is, to offer up on our own metaphorical patens and chalices, bread and wine for the world, in whatever form this might take on a given day. There are many ways of doing this, but you might want to try this: Some morning as the sun is lighting-up the horizon, let its red and golden fire enflame your heart and your empathy so as to make you stretch out your hands and pray Teilhard’s Eucharistic prayer over an awakening world.
(Oblate Father Ron Rolheiser, theologian, teacher and award-winning author, is President of the Oblate School of Theology in San Antonio, TX.)
Little Sisters take long view in HHS struggle
Guest Column
By Sister Constance Veit, lsp
Early in our community’s history, a group of townspeople who witnessed the Sisters’ humble charity toward the elderly dubbed them the “Little” Sisters of the Poor. The name stuck. Recently, however, we have become known to some as “the HHS Sisters” due to our lawsuit against the federal government over the Contraceptive Mandate. This issue has been pursuing us for over three years – pushing us out of our quiet, hidden lives into the unwelcome glare of the public eye – and there is no end in sight as our case now heads to the U.S. Supreme Court.
Why us? When will this journey end? I recently wondered as I prepared for yet another media interview about the case. But then a prayer attributed to Archbishop Oscar Romero, who was martyred in El Salvador, came to mind: “It helps, now and then, to step back and take a long view … We lay foundations that will need further development … It may be incomplete, but it is a beginning, a step along the way, an opportunity for the Lord’s grace to enter and do the rest. We may never see the end results, but that is the difference between the master builder and the worker. We are workers, not master builders; ministers, not messiahs. We are prophets of a future not our own.”
Stepping back to take the long view helped me to answer the question, “Why us?” Perhaps, among religious communities serving in the United States, we are uniquely qualified to face our nation’s current threats to religious liberty. Our foundress, Saint Jeanne Jugan, was born at the height of the radically anti-Christian French Revolution and established our congregation in its tumultuous aftermath, with virtually no resources. By the time her earthly journey ended, her young community had grown to over 2.000 Little Sisters serving the elderly in nearly a dozen countries. Today we are present in 31 nations. Saint Jeanne Jugan was undoubtedly the prophet of a future not her own.
Based on our humble beginnings, we might say that the will to persevere in serving the poor and bearing witness to the Joy of the Gospel despite seemingly insurmountable obstacles has been written into the DNA of our Congregation. Generations of Little Sisters have soldiered on through two World Wars, civil wars and government persecution of religion in numerous countries around the globe, disregarding their own personal safety in order to stand by their Residents. Others have weathered earthquakes, tsunamis and natural disasters of all sorts. By God’s grace, they faithfully remained with the elderly regardless of dangers or harsh conditions.
Looking back over our long history, I realize that I stand on the shoulders of humble giants. The witness of Saint Jeanne Jugan and the thousands of Little Sisters who have gone before me gives me the courage to do one more interview – and to trust that tomorrow will take care of itself. As Saint Jeanne Jugan often said when faced with challenges, “Give us the house; if God fills it, God will not abandon it … If God is with us, it will be accomplished.”
Taking the long view I’ve come to a new appreciation of the power of God’s Providence. He has never abandoned us and I am confident that he will not leave us orphans in this challenging moment of our history.
Could it be that God is taking our HHS journey all the way to the Supreme Court to give us the opportunity to witness to our absolute confidence in his loving Providence? Could it be that God chose us for this struggle in order to underline the dignity of every human being created in his image and likeness?
God’s modus operandi is to use the weak of this world to confound the learned and the strong. What weaker or more unlikely prophets could he have chosen to confuse the great and powerful of our contemporary culture than Saint Jeanne Jugan, her Little Sisters of the Poor and the needy elderly? God’s mercy is from age to age on those who fear him; the Almighty will do great things for us – I’m sure of it!
(Sister Constance Veit is communications director for the Little Sisters of the Poor.)
Ecological conservation impossible without conversion
Millennial reflections
Jeremy Tobin, O.Praem
Climate change has been on the front burner for a long time. Year after year the extremes in weather patterns have people saying, “See! There is climate change.” The deniers keep up their drum beat. Congress does nothing. Massive hurricanes tear up our seacoasts. Typhoons devastate Taiwan and the coast of China. Wildfires each year are more terrible than the last, and burn up the West. A plant springs a leak of toxic chemicals, and rivers for miles are polluted, wreaking havoc all over. Mississippi is having the worst heat wave in history. Much hullabaloo. But the deniers soothe people and its back to the usual.
Then there is the recycle movement. Reduce landfills. Push for biodegradable materials. Do we really want people five hundred years from now doing dissertations on our plastic bottles in landfills?
Some of this may sound silly. People make jokes, but it is all very serious. The scientific consensus is in. We are putting the future of our planet at serious risk.
Pope Francis takes this very seriously. In fact he has made this a centerpiece of his papacy.
Bernie Sanders writes: “Climate change is an unprecedented planetary emergency. If we don’t act aggressively now to combat it, there will be major and painful consequences in store later: rising oceans that inundate coastal areas, bigger super storms like Hurricane Sandy, worsening droughts, out-of-control wildfires, historic floods that come year after year, rising food prices, and millions of people displaced by climate disasters.”
Pope Francis, and this encyclical are making a powerful progressive impact across the world. The Atlantic Magazine reported:
In his Encyclical, Laudato Si, On Care for Our Common Home, Pope Francis rattles off fact after fact about the pitiful state of the earth: Pesticides have contaminated farmers soil. Air pollution has poisoned cities. Man-made waste checkers landscapes. There is not enough clean water for people to drink or tropical forests to regulate carbon in the atmosphere. Whole species of animals are dying out. In one place he says we are turning the planet into a filthy dump, but this planet is our home, all we got.
It is the poorest nations in the developing world that face the brunt of these conditions.
This encyclical is addressed to everyone on our planet, to remind us that there is such a thing as the common good, that all share and have a right to. Ecological crisis is also a summons to profound interior conversion.” He says “politics and technology have failed to save the earth.” Pope Francis criticizes “greed capitalism,” profit at all cost.
I want to focus on the interior conversion part, the spirituality part. To really change the situation involves an interior change. A spiritual renewal has to be built on the interdependence we have on the world and all nature. We are custodians, not dominating rulers.
A Catholic source reports:
The Encyclical Laudato si’ (Praised Be You) is developed around the concept of integral ecology, as a paradigm able to articulate the fundamental relationships of the person: with God, with one’s self, with other human beings, with creation. As the Pope himself explains in n. 15, this movement starts (ch. I) by listening spiritually to the results of the best scientific research on environmental matters available today, “letting them touch us deeply and provide a concrete foundation for the ethical and spiritual itinerary that follows.” Science is the best tool by which we can listen to the cry of the earth.
Pope Francis, true to his patron, says again and again that we have a relationship with the earth, all its creatures. We are called to protect this patrimony and hand it on to future generations. We are not to exploit it. He analyses Genesis correctly by saying we are not to dominate but to nurture and care for it.
Again and again he blasts those who would simply strip the earth of resources for profit only. Unbridled capitalism is a sin, and he is clear on that.
So the attitude must be one of reverence for God’s handiwork. Like St. Francis we must see the creative power of God at work and assist it by preserving its resources.
(Father Jeremy Tobin, O.Praem, lives at the Priory of St. Moses the Black, Jackson.)
Encyclical theme no surprise
By Bishop Joseph Kopacz
Pope Francis’ first encyclical is the inspiring document entitled Laudatio Si. This unique title is drawn from the beginning of the canticle of Saint Francis of Assisi that addresses God the Creator. “Praise be to you, my Lord, through our Sister, Mother Earth, who sustains and governs us, and who produces various fruit with colored flowers and herbs.” Pope Francis is calling on all of humankind, especially those of the Christian faith to care for our common home.
This encyclical should come as no surprise. On March 19, 2013, on the feast of Saint Joseph, in his inaugural homily with religious and national leaders present from all over the world, Francis proclaimed Jesus Christ to all the nations in the spirit of the great saint from Assisi whose name he chose.
In his prophetic homily he mentioned care for creation, our common home, nine times. This struck me as remarkable theme in an inaugural address with countless millions viewing throughout the world, and joyfully praying with the first Pope from the Americas.
Pope Francis spoke eloquently about Saint Joseph, the protector of Jesus Christ and his mother, Mary. “The core of the Christian vocation is Jesus Christ. Let us protect Christ in our lives, so that we can protect others, protect Creation.” Francis continues. “This is something human, involving everyone. It means protecting all creation, the beauty of the created world, as the Book of Genesis tells us, as Saint Francis showed us.”
Embodying the spirit of Saint Francis, Francis of Rome is pleading with us “to protect the whole of creation, to protect each person, especially the poorest, to protect ourselves.” He concludes his homily as if conducting a symphony, “so that the Star of Hope will shine brightly, let us protect with love all that God has given us.”
The Joy of the Gospel, Evangelii Guadium, Francis’ first Apostolic Letter is the beginning and end of all that he is doing, teaching, and preaching. Jesus Christ is mankind’s joy and hope, and all who are baptized in His name are called to be missionary disciples, joyful witnesses of the Lord of history, especially where the Cross is most evident. Laudatio Si emerges from Evangelii Guadium as daylight flows from the dawn of a new day. The seeds of both are contained in Francis’ inaugural homily on the Feast of Saint Joseph. “The earth is our common home and all of us are brothers and sisters.” (Evangelii Guadium)
In Laudatio Si Pope Francis is speaking as a spiritual and moral leader calling each of us to more fully answer the call to care for others and to care for God’s creation. It is a summons to “profound interior conversion” by recognizing with humility the results of human activity unmoored from God’s design. It is an integral ecology that further develops the teachings of the Church, most notably since the Second Vatican Council in the 1960s. Let us look at two examples, although there are many more.
On the occasion of the annual celebration of the World Day of Peace on January 1, 1990, Pope Saint John Paul II offered a vision of this integral ecology as a message of hope and peace to the world. “Theology, philosophy and science all speak of a harmonious universe, of a cosmos endowed with its own integrity, its own internal, dynamic balance. This order must be respected. The human race is called to explore this order, to examine it with due care and to make use of it while safeguarding its integrity.”
On November 14, 1991, the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops published the document entitled Renewing the Earth which addresses this holistic understanding of the crises and opportunities facing the modern world. “At its core the environmental crisis is a moral challenge.
It calls us to examine how we use and share the goods of the earth, what we pass on to future generations, and how we live in harmony with God’s creation.” The Bishops then and now “want to stimulate dialogue, particularly with the scientific community. We know these are not simple matters; we speak as pastors… Above all, we seek to explore the links between concern for the person and for the earth, between natural ecology and social ecology. The web of life is one.”
What is astounding is that Pope Francis has chosen the complex reality of an integral ecology as the matter for his first encyclical. This has been on his mind and heart for a long time. Not unexpectedly, those on the left and the right of the political spectrum have offered criticism or have found compatibility with their own world views.
But there is a length and height, breath and depth to this encyclical that cannot be worthily addressed through sound bites or superficial analysis. As he has done from the beginning of his election Pope, Francis encourages dialogue and encounter with respect and humility.
As with Evangelii Guadium, Laudatio Si requires a commitment from each of us to read it, pray about it, dialogue about it, and allow it to shape us as missionary disciples in God’s fragile yet resilient world, our common home. This is an encyclical to which we will return often. “And God saw that it was very good.” (Genesis)
Tema de la encíclica no sorprende a nadie
Por Obispo Joseph Kopacz La primera encíclica del Papa Francisco es el inspirado documento titulado Laudatio Si. Este original título fue extraído del comienzo del cántico de San Francisco de Asís que trata sobre Dios el Creador. “Alabado sea mi Señor, por nuestra hermana, la Madre Tierra que nos sostiene y nos gobierna, y que produce diversos frutos con coloridas flores y hierbas”. El Papa Francisco le pide a toda la humanidad, y en especial a los de la fe Cristiana, que cuiden de su hogar común.
Esta encíclica no debería sorprender a nadie. El 19 de marzo de 2013, en la fiesta de San José, en la homilía de su discurso inaugural con dirigentes religiosos y nacionales presentes de todo el mundo, Francisco proclamó a Jesucristo a todas las naciones en el espíritu del gran santo de Asís cuyo nombre escogió.
En su profética homilía, mencionó el cuidado de la creación, nuestro hogar común, nueve veces. Esto me pareció un notable tema en un discurso inaugural con incontables millones de personas viendo en todo el mundo, y con alegría rezando con el primer papa de la Américas.
El Papa Francisco habló elocuentemente sobre San José, el protector de Jesucristo y su madre, María. “El núcleo de la vocación cristiana es Jesucristo. Protejamos a Cristo en nuestras vidas, para que podamos proteger a otros y proteger la creación”. Francisco continua. “Esto es algo humano, que involucra a todos. Quiere decir proteger toda la creación, la belleza del mundo creado, como el Libro del Génesis nos dice, como San Francisco nos mostró”.
Encarnando el espíritu de San Francisco, el Francisco de Roma nos está implorando “a proteger la totalidad de la creación, a proteger a cada persona, especialmente a los más pobres, a protegernos a nosotros mismos”. El concluye la homilía como si estuviera dirigiendo una sinfonía, “para que la Estrella de la Esperanza brille, protejamos con amor todo lo que Dios nos ha dado”.
La Alegría del Evangelio, Evangelii Guadium, la primera Carta Apostólica de Francisco, es el inicio y el final de todo lo que está haciendo, enseñando y predicando. Jesucristo es la alegría y la esperanza de la humanidad, y todos los que han sido bautizados en su nombre están llamados a ser discípulos misioneros, testigos gozosos del Señor de la historia, especialmente donde la Cruz es más evidente.
Laudatio Si surge de Evangelii Guadium como la luz del día fluye del amanecer de un nuevo día. Las semillas de ambos se encuentran en la homilía inaugural de Francisco en la Fiesta de San José. “La tierra es nuestra casa común y todos nosotros somos hermanos y hermanas”. (Evangelii Guadium)
En Laudatio Si el Papa Francisco habla como un líder espiritual y moral llamándonos a cada uno de nosotros a responder de un modo más completo a la llamada de cuidar a los demás y de cuidar la creación de Dios. Es una invitación a “una profunda conversión interior” reconociendo con humildad los resultados de la actividad humana desamarrada del diseño de Dios. Es una ecología integral que desarrolla las enseñanzas de la Iglesia, especialmente desde el Concilio Vaticano II en la década de 1960.
Veamos dos ejemplos, aunque hay muchos más. Con ocasión de la celebración anual del Día Mundial de la Paz el 1 de enero de 1990, el Papa San Juan Pablo II ofreció una visión de esta ecología integral como un mensaje de esperanza y de paz al mundo. “La teología, la filosofía y la ciencia hablan de un universo armónico, de un cosmos dotado de su propia integridad, su propio equilibrio interno y dinámico. Este orden debe ser respetado. La raza humana está llamada a explorar este orden, a examinarlo con la debida atención y hacer uso de él mientras salvaguardan su integridad.”
El 14 de noviembre de 1991, la Conferencia de Obispos Católicos de los Estados Unidos publicó el documento titulado, “Renovando la Tierra” el cual trata esta comprensión holística de las crisis y las oportunidades que enfrenta el mundo moderno. “En su esencia la crisis del medio ambiente es un desafío moral. Nos llama a examinar cómo usamos y compartimos los bienes de la tierra, lo que pasamos a las generaciones futuras, y cómo vivimos en armonía con la creación de Dios”.
Los obispos, entonces y ahora “quieren estimular el diálogo, en particular con la comunidad científica. “Sabemos que éstas no son cuestiones sencillas; nosotros hablamos como pastores… Por encima de todo, buscamos explorar los vínculos entre la preocupación por la persona y por la tierra, entre la ecología natural y ecología social. El tejido de la vida es uno de ellos”.
Lo que es sorprendente es que el Papa Francisco ha escogido la compleja realidad de una ecología integral como el tema de su primera encíclica. Esto ha estado en su mente y su corazón por un largo tiempo. No inesperadamente, los de la izquierda y la derecha del espectro político han ofrecido críticas o han encontrado compatibilidad con su propia visión del mundo. Pero hay una longitud y altura, amplitud y profundidad de esta encíclica que no puede ser dignamente dirigida a través de acertadas mordeduras o análisis superficial.
Como lo ha hecho desde el comienzo de su elección, el Papa Francisco fomenta el diálogo y el encuentro con respeto y humildad. Como con Evangelii Guadium, Laudatio Si requiere un compromiso por parte de cada uno de nosotros de leerla, de orar al respecto, dialogar sobre el asunto, y permitir que nos forme como discípulos misioneros en el mundo frágil pero resistente de Dios, nuestro hogar común. Esta es una encíclica sobre la cual volveremos a hablar a menudo. “Y Dios vio que era muy bueno”. (Génesis)
Growing virtue heals flaws
IN EXILE
By Father Ron Rolheiser, OMI
All of us live with some wounds, bad habits, addictions and temperamental flaws that are so deeply engrained and long-standing that it seems like they are part of our genetic make-up. And so we tend to give into a certain quiet despair in terms of ever being healed of them.
Experience teaches us this. There’s the realization at some point in our lives that the wounds and flaws which pull us down cannot be simply be turned off like a water-tap. Willpower and good resolutions alone are not up to the task. What good is it to make a resolution never to be angry again? Our anger will invariably return. What good is it to make a resolution to give up some addictive habit, however small or big? We will soon enough again be overcome by its lure.
And what good does it do to try to change some temperamental flaw we’ve inherited in our genes or inhaled in the air of our childhood? All the good resolutions and positive thinking in the world normally don’t change our make-up.
So what do we do? Just live with our wounds and flaws and the unhappiness and pettiness that this brings into our lives? Or, can we heal? How do we weed-out our weaknesses?
There are many approaches to healing: Psychology tells us that good counseling and therapy can help cure us of our wounds, flaws and addictions. Therapy and counseling can bring us to a better self-understanding and that can help us change our behavior. But psychology also admits that this has its limitations. Knowing why we do something doesn’t always empower us to change our behavior. Sociology too has insights to contribute: There is, as Parker Palmer puts it, the therapy of a public life. Healthy interaction with family, friends, community and church can be a wonderfully steadying thing in our lives and help take us beyond our lonely wounds and our congenital missteps.
Various recovery (12-Step) programs also contribute something valuable: These programs are predicated on the premise that self-understanding and willpower by themselves are often powerless to actually change our behavior. A higher power is needed, and that higher power is found in ritual, communal support, radical honesty, admittance of our helplessness and a turning over of ourselves to a someone or something beyond us that can do for us what we cannot do for ourselves. Recovery programs are invaluable, but they too aren’t the answer to all of our problems.
Finally, not least, there are various theories and practices of healing that ground themselves in spirituality. These range from emphasizing church-going itself as a healing, to emphasizing the sacrament of reconciliation, to recommending prayer and meditation, to counseling various ascetical practices, to sending people off to holy sites, to letting oneself be prayed-over by some group or faith-healer, to undergoing long periods of spiritual guidance under a trained director.
There’s value in all of these and perhaps the full healing of a temperamental flaw, a bad habit, an addiction or a deep wound depends upon drawing water from each of these wells. However, beyond this simple listing, I would like to offer an insight from the great mystic, John of the Cross, vis-à-vis coming to psychological, moral and spiritual healing.
In his last book, “The Living Flame of Love,” John proposes a theory of, and a process for, healing. In essence, it runs this way: For John, we heal of our wounds, moral flaws, addictions and bad habits by growing our virtues to the point where we become mature enough in our humanity so that there’s no more room left in our lives for the old behaviors that used to drag us down. In short, we get rid of the coldness, bitterness and pettiness in our hearts by lighting inside our hearts enough warm fires to burn out the coldness and bitterness.
The algebra works this way: The more we grow in maturity, generativity and generosity, the more our old wounds, bad habits, temperamental flaws and addictions will disappear because our deeper maturity will no longer leave room for them in our lives. Positive growth of our hearts, like a vigorous plant, eventually chokes-out the weeds. If you went to John of the Cross and asked him to help you deal with a certain bad habit in your life, his focus wouldn’t be on how to weed-out that habit. Instead the focus would be on growing your virtues: What are you doing well? What are your best qualities? What goodness in you needs to be fanned fan into fuller flame?
By growing what’s positive in us, we eventually become big-hearted enough so that there’s no room left for our former bad habits. The path to healing is to water our virtues so that these virtues themselves will be the fire that burns out the festering wounds, addictions, bad habits and temperamental flaws that have, for far too long, plagued our lives and kept us wallowing in weakness and pettiness rather than walking in maturity, generosity and generativity.
(Oblate Father Ron Rolheiser, theologian, teacher and award-winning author, is President of the Oblate School of Theology in San Antonio, TX.)
Sending a child to college an exercise in trust
Kneading Faith
By Fran Lavelle
It’s late July and before we know it our college students will be heading off to campus. For those of you who have sent a child away to college I am certain you’ll agree there can be a lot of anxiety surrounding the event. As many of you know, I spent 15 years working as the full time Catholic campus minister at Mississippi State and from that experience have gained some insights helpful to parents of college students. Here’s my list of three things every parent should consider:
Trust God
This seems like a no brainer, but for many parents letting go of control of their son or daughter is unbearable. They feel like if they have all the cards they can prevent their child from life’s more difficult situations. I get it. Some parents might be looking back at their own track record in college. Some of us may have not always made the best choices.
Thinking back to our own behavior can be helpful in that we know the temptations and pitfalls awaiting young people in college. Peer pressure is as real as it’s ever been. We need only to look to the Old Testament for the consequences of temptation. We all know what choice Eve made in the garden. We are not all that different. But knowing the reality that temptations and pressures are part of college life means we need to trust God all the more.
We need to allow our young adult children to make mistakes. We need to let them fail, fall down, get their hearts broken and stand back up on their own two feet knowing they survived and have learned from each experience. We need to trust that they will learn and appreciate a greater dependence on God as they struggle with their newly minted role of young adults.
Trust yourself
Yes, trust yourself that you have raised a good person. You have given them opportunities to learn, grow and succeed. You have provided the necessary infrastructure for them to grow in their faith, their studies and hopefully their life skills. You have to trust that the foundation you have put in place is sturdy and durable.
Yes, there will be challenges that your child faces in college that will seem like an assault to the foundation you have provided, but you must trust that the foundation you built is solid. Who remembers the wisdom of this 38 Special song, “Just hold on loosely, but don’t let go. If you cling too tightly, you’re gonna lose control”? Sure, this song is about a lost love interest, but the wisdom rings true.
Hold on, loosely. By doing so you are there to help them navigate life when they really need your help. The loosely part means you let them handle the non-life threatening stuff. Allow your child to grow trusting you have done your job and done it well.
Trust your child
As a parent you know your child’s gifts and you know their challenges. They need to feel the freedom that this new stage in life offers them. They need to know you are there, but they need to learn to trust their own discernment and decision making. Second Corinthians 5:7 teaches us, “We walk by faith, not by sight.”
College is the perfect time to grow in our faith walk. They will not see the road ahead but in walking by faith and not sight deepens our dependence on God. Allowing our children to trust their own judgement gives them confidence to make increasingly more important decisions. So too it will increase their dependence on God and hopefully be strengthened and enriched by their prayer life.
After the last box is unpacked, a semester of learning, growing and experiencing life awaits your college-aged child. Let us take comfort in the words of the prophet Jeremiah, “Blessed are those who trust in the LORD; the LORD will be their trust.”
(Fran Lavelle is Director of the Department of Faith Formation.)
Ruling highlights separation of civil law from morality
Complete the circle
By George Evans
Like many of you, as a Catholic, I have been trying for the last days and weeks to get my arms around the impact of the recent U.S. Supreme Court decision making same sex marriage legal in all 50 states. Regardless of whether we think the decision is correct or not, or whether we like it or not, there is no question that it is now the law of the land. What then does that portend for us as Catholics in our religious practice? After considerable struggle and thought my conclusion is NOTHING. The Supreme Court does not make moral law.
Civil law and Catholic morality are two different things. Both have an enormous impact on the way we live. Frequently the law changes the way people act. Think of the way the Civil Rights statutes in the 60’s changed voting, housing, accommodations, employment and myriad other parts of our lives. The blockbuster changes in public education effected by the Supreme Court decision in Brown vs. Board of Education has been monumental. Every Southerner who lived through what was a true social revolution based to a great extent on changes in law experienced the practical impact of law on life.
As a Catholic, I have always thought the Brown decision and laws of the Civil Rights Era were in lock step with Catholic morality. They moved this country much closer to its own destiny set forth in the Declaration of Independence that all men are created equal and to the Old and New Testaments.
Genesis tells us that God created us in His image and likeness and the Gospels tell us His Son, Jesus, proved our worth by dying and rising for us and our salvation. Although legal, it was not moral to have segregated schools, churches, movie theaters, water fountains, bathrooms, etc. Segregation was legal in the south but not moral. Neither was slavery in its day. We now acknowledge the sin of legal segregation as well as slavery. We did not for a long time. I think the Civil Rights decisions and statutes are a great example of how law influenced behavior to be more in keeping with gospel values than did much of the preaching of the time.
On the other hand, Roe v Wade, another monumental Supreme Court decision more than 40 years ago, has had the opposite practical impact. By legalizing abortion it has conveyed the message to many that abortion is okay whether that was the intent of the decision or not. The result has been millions of innocent babies cast onto the trash heap.
Nothing could be further from Catholic morality. The law has not changed the clear teaching of Catholic morality condemning abortion. Those who claim otherwise are, at least objectively, deluding themselves. The sin of abortion is still with us. Roe v Wade has had the opposite effect from the Civil Rights decisions and statutes but also is evidence of how law can affect behavior one way or the other.
There are many areas which may not be quite as clear as Jim Crow and abortion. In my mind the failure in Mississippi of the legislature and governor to expand Medicaid is an affront to Catholic morality which stresses the duty to work for the common good and to care for our vulnerable brothers and sisters. I appreciate that financial arguments to the contrary are made.
I submit that they are hollow and trumped by the financial benefits of new jobs, critical support for hospitals and the moral imperative of healthcare for several hundred thousand people now doing without to the detriment of us all. If we accept Mt. 25 as being at least one standard for our personal salvation, perhaps we need to cure this absence of law to conform with Catholic morality.
Obviously there are many areas where law and morality relate – education funding, euthanasia, death penalty, mental health, immigration, etc. Too many to go into here. But what the Supreme Court has done in the case of same sex marriage highlights the difference between the two. Catholic morality teaches that same sex marriage is unacceptable and violates the consistent teaching of Scripture and the church.
As such we have no duty to accept it in our church practice while still recognizing it as the law of the land until such time as it may be changed. Our moral duty to love and respect all people remains our task including those who enter same sex marriage. Our moral duty to support and promote traditional marriage between a man and a woman continues and even increases as we work to uphold marriage as a special relationship between one man and one woman.
Pope Francis’s Synod in October in Rome will address the family which starts with a man and a woman in marriage. Let us pray for its success, for the success of future propagation, and for a change to the recent decision on same sex marriage.
Let us act in such ways that God’s kingdom comes now as well as later. Let us treat all people in such ways that our witness to the Jesus of the gospels will be irresistible to all who come into contact with us in our daily lives. Then we will have fulfilled our duty as citizens to law and as Catholics to Catholic morality.
(George Evans is a pastoral minister at Jackson St. Richard Parish.)
El matrimonio y su re-definición, una respuesta
Por Obispo Joseph Kopacz.
La gracia y la paz de parte de Dios nuestro Padre y de nuestro Señor Jesucristo esté con todos ustedes.
Muchos han levantado sus voces desde el espectro de las ideologías, las convicciones religiosas y desde todos los niveles de la sociedad en respuesta a la decisión de la Corte Suprema de sancionar legalmente el matrimonio entre personas del mismo sexo en todo el país.
Yo también quiero expresar mi opinión en ésta crítica decisión judicial que ha cambiado radicalmente la definición de matrimonio. Al hacerlo, estoy consciente de las inspiradoras palabras del Apóstol San Pedro en su primera carta. Honren a Cristo Señor en sus corazones. Estén siempre preparados a responder a todo el que les pida razón de la esperanza que ustedes tienen, pero háganlo con humildad y respeto. (1 Pedro 3:15)
La iglesia, como administradora de los misterios de Dios y ayudante de Jesucristo (1Cor. 4:1) ha sido encargada de una forma de vida en el matrimonio que está sólidamente establecida en las Escrituras, en la tradición, en antropología cristiana y en nuestra vida sacramental.
La unión de un hombre y una mujer en el matrimonio surge de la obra creadora de Dios como la relación primaria para toda la vida humana. Ha sido la piedra angular, no sólo para la iglesia, sino también para la sociedad civil a lo largo de milenios. Su desaparición en el mundo moderno ha causado enormes problemas para las personas, las familias y la sociedad.
La Iglesia Católica ha estimado y celebrado el sacramento del matrimonio entre sus siete sagrados dones (sacramentos) legado por el Señor Jesús. Las raíces del matrimonio están fundamentadas en la Palabra de Dios, comenzando con el segundo capítulo del Génesis donde “un hombre deja a su padre y a su madre para unirse a su esposa y los dos serán una sola carne” (Génesis 2:24).
Jesús claramente confirmó la acción creadora de Dios sobre el matrimonio en el Evangelio de San Marcos cuando le recordó a sus oyentes sobre la intención de su padre desde el principio, (Marcos 10: 6-10). Más adelante en el Nuevo Testamento, la base para el sacramento del matrimonio se establece cuando el autor de Efesios elocuentemente escribió, “que los esposos amen a sus esposas como Cristo amó a la iglesia y se entregó a sí mismo por ella” (Efesios 5:25). Por lo tanto, el amor de marido y mujer en el matrimonio es un signo sagrado del fiel y permanente amor del Señor por nosotros.
Por lo tanto, somos administradores y servidores de la institución sagrada del matrimonio que no somos libres para cambiar en nuestra tradición de fe. A la luz de la fe y la razón, es lamentable que lo que Dios destinó desde el principio ha sido pisoteado tan a menudo en nuestro mundo moderno, y ahora re-definido.
Sin embargo, nuestro inquebrantable compromiso de la dignidad de toda persona humana, creada a imagen y semejanza de Dios, y en necesidad de salvación, motiva todos nuestros ministerios y la vida parroquial. Nuestra experiencia personal del amor misericordioso de Dios, la clave de la vida eterna, tiene que dirigir nuestros encuentros, acciones y conversaciones con todas las personas, incluyendo a nuestros hermanos y hermanas de la misma atracción sexual y estilos de vida.
Aunque la iglesia no puede aceptar la re-definición del matrimonio, estamos obligados por el mandato de Jesucristo a amarnos unos a otros como él nos ha amado. e es el amor que mueve cielo y tierra, y trata de conciliar a todas las personas con Dios y con el otro.
