Ideal para la Cuaresma: reflexión sobre vocación

Por Obispo Joseph Kopacz
Nuestro primer pacto con Dios comenzó en el momento de nuestro Bautismo. Cualquiera que sea nuestra vocación en la vida, todos vivimos este causa común, y al inicio de la Cuaresma la iglesia, el Cuerpo de Cristo, proclama el amor fiel y eterno del Señor por nosotros, y el desafío de volver a él con todo nuestro corazón. Es la temporada de renovación de nuestras promesas bautismales que será nuestra compromiso en la misa de Pascua. Después de su propio bautismo y tentación en el desierto, Jesús camina a través de nuestras vidas como caminó por Galilea hace dos mil años, “es el momento de realización, arrepiéntanse y crean en el Evangelio.”
Cualquiera que sea nuestra vocación en la vida todos estamos llamados al arrepentimiento. No podemos ser complacientes o indiferente a la urgencia de la llamada del Señor en nuestras vidas. El llamado es de alejarse del pecado, morirse uno mismo, resistir la tentación del egoísmo y el egocentrismo que pueden ser mortal para todas las demás relaciones en nuestras vidas. Somos capaces de morirnos a sí mismo en esta vida porque Jesucristo ha hecho esto posible en el centro de nuestras vidas por su muerte y resurrección.
En medio del fundamento de esta renovación anual la Iglesia se encuentra en medio del año de la vida consagrada, en el centro del proceso de amplia consulta sobre la vocación y la misión de la familia en la Iglesia y en el mundo moderno. Todo trabaja junto porque a pesar de que estamos escuchando la llamada del Señor a un nivel personal profundo, todos estamos conectados entre sí en familia, lugares de trabajo, vecindarios y comunidades de fe. Cualquiera cambio que ocurra en la vida de un individuo, para mejor o para peor, va a afectar a otros en nuestro círculo de vida.
La Diócesis de Jackson está participando en el documento preparatorio que se está realizando en este momento a nivel mundial sobre la Vocación y la Misión de la Familia en la Iglesia y en el Mundo Moderno que contribuirá al diálogo, discernimiento y toma de decisiones más adelante este otoño durante la 14ª Asamblea General Ordinaria del Sínodo de los Obispos sobre la familia que presidirá el Papa Francisco. (Estamos invitando a los fieles católicos a participar, hasta el 16 de marzo, en este documento preparatorio diocesano a través de la página Web.)
El Sínodo es pastoral en su propósito y esto se hace evidente al examinar algunos de los títulos de los capítulos en el documento preparatorio.

Parte II
v Contemplando a Cristo: el Evangelio de la Familia
v Mirando a Jesús y la divina enseñanza del Evangelio
v La familia en el plan salvífico de Dios
v La familia en los documentos de la iglesia
v La indisolubilidad del matrimonio y la alegría de compartir la vida juntos
v La verdad y la belleza de la familia
v Misericordia hacia las familias separadas y frágiles

Parte III
v Afrontando la situación: perspectivas pastorales
v Anunciando el evangelio de la familia en la actualidad en diversos contextos
v Orientando a las parejas de novios en su preparación para el matrimonio
v Cuidado pastoral para las parejas casadas civilmente o viviendo juntos
v Cuidando a las familias con problemas: separadas, divorciadas y no vueltas a casar, divorciadas y vueltas a casar, familias con un solo progenitor
v Atención pastoral a las personas con tendencias homosexuales.
v La transmisión de la vida y los desafíos de la natalidad decreciente
v Crianza y el papel de la familia en la evangelización.
La llamada del Señor en nuestras vidas durante la Cuaresma impregna las circunstancias concretas de nuestra vocación y responsabilidades. El matrimonio es único en el sentido de que es el que mejor representa el amor eterno de Jesucristo por toda la humanidad, pero especialmente por la iglesia. Esto es sagrado. Jesucristo no es sí hoy, y no mañana. Es sí para siempre. El hombre y la mujer en el matrimonio se esfuerzan por unirse al corazón y la mente de Cristo Jesús elevando permanencia y fidelidad en su alianza sacramental.
Hace dos semanas nos reunimos en nuestra Catedral de San Pedro Apóstol para la misa aniversario con las parejas que estaban celebrando entre 25 y 71 años de matrimonio. La renovación de su pacto con Dios refleja lo que hacemos en la Cuaresma.
Como el hombre y la mujer se complementan mutuamente en el matrimonio, las vocaciones de vida matrimonial y vida religiosa se complementan una a otra en la iglesia y en el mundo. El matrimonio en su esencia nos revela el amor activo del Señor por su iglesia cada momento de cada día, el aquí y el ahora de la vida en este mundo. La vida consagrada religiosa en su esencia nos revela que en última instancia todos estamos destinados para el cielo por lo que incluso las bendiciones del matrimonio y la vida familiar pueden ser sacrificadas por la bendición que supera todo lo que conocemos en esta vida, nuestro eterno hogar y salvación.
También sabemos que muchas personas servir al Señor en formas que a menudo son conocidos sólo por Dios. Los que son de un solo no son sólo pasar el tiempo antes de obtener una vida real. Y sabemos que la llamada del Señor pueden ser tan reales en una forma de vida que goza de mayor libertad y flexibilidad. Están en los mercados y plazas públicas de nuestro mundo, con la oportunidad de llevar el Señor a los márgenes de la sociedad, como el Papa San Francisco le gusta decir.
Otra manera en que podemos apreciar la diversidad de estilos de vida y regalos en la Iglesia es la oportunidad de ser inspirado por cada uno de los otros. Los sacrificios diarios que dan soporte a nuestros fieles, la cotidianidad de nuestras vidas con Dios, y el espíritu alegre de la llamada son signos de la Palabra de Dios hacen carne. A menudo nos necesitamos el uno al otro para permanecer en el camino a medida que seguir al Señor cada uno de ellos. Vamos a orar uno por el otro, como caminar a la itinerario cuaresmal.
También sabemos que muchas personas solteras sirven al Señor en formas que a menudo son conocidos sólo por Dios. Los solteros no están sólo pasado el tiempo antes de tener una vida real. Mas bien sabemos que la llamada del Señor puede ser tan real en una forma de vida que goza de mayor libertad y flexibilidad. Están en los mercados y plazas públicas de nuestro mundo con una oportunidad de llevar al Señor a los márgenes de la sociedad, como al Papa Francisco le gusta decir.
Otra manera en la que podemos apreciar la diversidad de estilos de vida y regalos en la iglesia es la oportunidad de ser inspirado mutuamente. Los sacrificios diarios que soportan nuestra vida fiel, la cotidianidad de nuestras vidas por bendecidas por Dios, y el espíritu alegre de nuestra llamada son signos de la Palabra de Dios hecha carne. A menudo nos necesitamos el uno al otro para permanecer en el camino a medida que cada uno de nosotros seguimos al Señor. Vamos a orar el uno por el otro mientras caminamos en el tiempo cuaresmal.

Using Lent to reconnect with God

Complete the circle
By George Evans
What do we do as we search again to make this a good Lent. Do we pray more? Yes. Do we go to daily Mass? Yes, if possible. Do we give up something? Yes, if its something that’s hard and means a lot to us like cussing, smoking or drinking. Do we treat our spouse, children or grandchildren better. Yes, and now we are getting to the God stuff because of the other stuff.
When we pray more and better in quiet and perhaps with scripture, go to Eucharist daily or at least more frequently, deny ourselves those pleasures we love or are addicted to then the God stuff all of a sudden smacks us in the face.
The reason is simple.  Prayer, sacrament, self denial and discipline purify and open us to allow the God who is always there with his voice calling and arms open to be heard by us and embraced by us. Once we hear him and embrace him then the God stuff automatically follows.
Instead of me, me, me we focus on you, you, you.  Remember Jesus healing Peter’s mother-in-law though he was tired after a long day and healing the daughter of a foreigner, a Greek woman, Syrophoenician by birth, even though he was trying to go unnoticed when he went to the district of Tyre.  He knew from prayer what his father wanted of him and he responded accordingly and this was his God stuff. And he periodically needed to hear and be touched by his father, just as we do, to keep going in his mission. Should we not do the same and serve and touch the other? Is this not what Lent is meant to be about?
From the first pages in Genesis God’s method is clear. After creating us he gave us a beautiful garden filled with all we needed, nourished and embraced us and gave us the command to take care of this world and the creation he had given us.
He didn’t tell us just to sit back  but rather to “be fertile and multiply,” “to have dominion over all the living creatures.” He used the Cain and Abel story in the best cross examination in Scripture to make it clear that YES, we are “our brother’s keeper.” He repeatedly blessed his covenant people, Abraham, Joseph, Moses, Isaiah and the other prophets and after forming them sent them to do the great things in the Hebrew scriptures. It is always His way to love and form his people and then to send them to do the great leads of the Covenant. It always is a matter of coming to him and then going from him to bring him to others, to the world.
Jesus comes from the Godhead itself formed from all eternity in his relationship to his Father and brings to us the very life of that relationship.  Jesus goes from the Father and touches as many people as possible in his relatively short time on earth. But he touches them in such an extraordinary way by his life and Resurrection that the world is forever changed.
Time and dates are based on his short life. His disciples came to him after being called, and formed by him proceeded to bring him to the ends of the earth as commanded in the Great Commission, “Go, therefore, and make disciples of all nations.”
Lent then is that special time when  we come again to Jesus and the Father with renewed emphasis on prayer, sacrament, self denial and openness to the Spirit who is the love of the Father and Son, and touched as we will be by their embrace then we go to bring them to all nations starting with every person we meet in day to day life.  We go to spouse, children, grandchildren, co-workers, friends and even enemies. And we take Christ with us to all.  And when we do, the great surprise is that we see Christ in each of them.
We go to the poor, homeless, beggars, widows, orphans, aliens – we go to all and we meet them in our  everyday life, not in some foreign country, and we serve them. We take Jesus with us because we have been formed by him and have been made strong enough by him to serve and we let him act through us as his hands and feet.
And finally our serving brings us  great peace and union with him, maybe for the first time. With the resurrection on Easter as we are touched with a glimpse of eternity arm and arm with our brothers we have served.
(George Evans is a pastoral minister at Jackson St. Richard Parish.)

View of Christians as perfect flawed

Word on Fire
By Father Robert Baron
Many atheists and agnostics today insistently argue that it is altogether possible for non-believers to be morally upright.  They resent the implication that the denial of God will lead inevitably to complete ethical relativism or nihilism.  And they are quick to point out examples of non-religious people who are models of kindness, compassion, justice, etc. In point of fact, a recent article has proposed that non-believers are actually, on average, more morally praiseworthy than religious people.
In this context, I recall Christopher Hitchens’ remark that, all things considered, he would be more frightened of a group of people coming from a religious meeting than a group coming from a rock concert or home from a night on the town. God knows (pun intended) that during the last twenty years we’ve seen plenty of evidence from around the world of the godly behaving very badly indeed.
Though I could quarrel with a number of elements within this construal of things, I would actually gladly concede the major point that it is altogether possible for atheists and agnostics to be morally good. The classical Greek and Roman formulators of the theory of the virtues were certainly not believers in the Biblical God, and many of their neo-pagan successors today do indeed exhibit fine moral qualities. What I should like to do, however, is to use this controversy as a springboard to make a larger point, namely that Christianity is not primarily about ethics, about “being a nice person” or, to use Flannery O’Connor’s wry formula, “having a heart of gold.” The moment Christians grant that Christianity’s ultimate purpose is to make us ethically better people, they cannot convincingly defend against the insinuation that, if some other system makes human beings just as good or better, Christianity has lost its raison d’etre.
Much of the confusion on this score can be traced to the influence of Immanuel Kant, especially his seminal text Religion Within the Limits of Reason Alone. Like so many of his Enlightenment era confreres, Kant was impatient with the claims of the revealed religions. He saw them as unverifiable and finally irrational assertions that could be defended, not through reason, but only through violence. Accordingly, he argued that, at its best, religion is not about dogma or doctrine or liturgy but about ethics. In the measure that the Scriptures, prayer, and belief make one morally good, they are admissible, but in the measure that they lead to moral corruption, they should be dispensed with. As religious people mature, Kant felt, they would naturally let those relatively extrinsic practices and convictions fall to the side and would embrace the ethical core of their belief systems.  Kant’s army of disciples today include such figures as John Shelby Spong, John Dominic Crossan, James Carroll, Bart Ehrman, and the late Marcus Borg, all of whom think that Christianity ought to be de-supernaturalized and re-presented as essentially a program of inclusion and social justice.
The problem with this Kantianism both old and new is that it runs dramatically counter to the witness of the first Christians, who were concerned, above all, not with an ethical program but with the explosive emergence of a new world. The letters of St. Paul, which are the earliest Christian texts we have, are particularly instructive on this score. One can find “ethics” in the writings of Paul, but one would be hard pressed indeed to say that the principal theme of Romans, Galatians, Philippians, or first and second Corinthians is the laying out of a moral vision.
The central motif of all of those letters is in fact Jesus Christ risen from the dead. For Paul, the resurrection of Jesus is the sign that the world as we know it — a world marked by death and the fear of death — is evanescing and that a new order of things is emerging. This is why he tells the Corinthians “the time is running out” and “the world in its present form is passing away;” this is why he tells the Philippians that everything he once held to be of central importance he now considers as so much rubbish; this is why he tells the Romans that they are not justified by their own moral achievements but through the grace of Jesus Christ; and this is why he tells the Galatians that neither circumcision nor uncircumcision means anything; what counts is the “new creation.” The new creation is shorthand for the overturning of the old world and the emergence of a new order through the resurrection of Jesus, the “first fruits of those who have fallen asleep.”
The inaugural speech of Jesus, as reported in the Gospel of Mark, commences with the announcement of the kingdom of God and then the exhortation to “repent and believe the good news.” We tend automatically to interpret repentance as a summons to moral conversion, but the Greek word that Mark employs is metanoiete, which means literally, “go beyond the mind you have.”
On Mark’s telling, Jesus is urging his listeners to change their way of thinking so as to see the new world that is coming into existence.  It is indeed the case that Buddhists, Hindus, Christians, Muslims, Jews, atheists, and agnostics can all be “good people.” In terms of what we privilege today, they can all be tolerant, inclusive, and just.  But only Christians witness to an earthquake that has shaken the foundations of the world and turned every expectation upside down. A key to the new evangelization is the rediscovery of this revolutionary message.
(Father Robert Barron is the founder of the global ministry, Word on Fire, and the Rector/President of Mundelein Seminary. He is the creator of the award winning documentary series, “Catholicism”  and “Catholicism:The New Evangelization.” Learn more at www.WordonFire.org.)

Oración, ayuno, limosna

El Obispo Kopacz visitó y celebró misa en todos los colegios católicos de la diócesis.

El Obispo Kopacz visitó y celebró misa en todos los colegios católicos de la diócesis.

por Obispo Joseph Kopacz
Hay una temporada para todo bajo el cielo, dice el inspirado texto del Eclesiastés, y, una vez más, el momento de renovación comienza para toda la iglesia, para cada comunidad y cada creyente. Es un tiempo que concierne a muchos católicos en nuestras vidas porque nos damos cuenta de que es tan fácil ser complacientes o indiferente a las cosas que realmente importan, o mejor dicho, las relaciones que  realmente importan. El Señor nos ha dicho cual es ese camino para sus discípulos: amar al Señor nuestro Dios con todo nuestro corazón, alma, mente y fuerza y amar a nuestro prójimo como a nosotros mismos.
Nuestro vecino por supuesto es que cada persona viva, comenzando en el hogar y extendiendose a las márgenes del mundo. Estos dos mandamientos nunca están fuera de temporada, pero nuestros 40 días de viaje espiritual es un extra-ordinario tiempo para crecer en la gracia de Dios como los discípulos del Señor.
El Evangelio del Miércoles de Ceniza de san Mateo nos da el plan de acción que nos llevará más profundamente al corazón de Dios quien   luego nos remite uno a otro en su espíritu. Es tan clara como uno, dos, tres, o la oración, el ayuno y la limosna. Nuestra experiencia de estas tres disciplinas cuaresmales nos ha demostrado que estos son los elementos básicos para poder superar nuestro egocentrismo, nuestro egoísmo y nuestro pecado.
La oración en sus muchas formas eleva el corazón y la mente a Dios. Ponemos a un lado nuestro ego para  conocer mejor el corazón y la mente de Cristo Jesús. La Eucaristía es el centro, fuente y cumbre de nuestra oración, pero hay muchas corrientes de oración que alimentan el espíritu y el cuerpo del Señor, la iglesia.
En alguna ocasión cuando los apóstoles fueron incapaces de ayudar a un hombre asustado cuyo hijo estaba en las garras de un demonio, Jesús les aseguró que el miedo es inútil; lo que se necesita es confianza. Confiando en el poder de Dios no es posible sin constantes oraciones que alimentan el espíritu y dan vida al Cuerpo de Cristo.
El ayuno es a menudo el menos valorado de los tres mandatos cuaresmales. Como la oración sólo es posible cuando dejamos de lado nuestro valioso tiempo para centrarnos en Dios, el ayuno también requiere sacrificio porque estamos diciendo menos es mejor. Como sabemos, el Miércoles de Ceniza y el Viernes Santo son días de ayuno de consumo normal de alimentos y abstención de comer carne. Estos son los puntos esenciales de nuestros 40 días de peregrinación y siguen siendo muy importantes en nuestro calendario espiritual. Sin embargo, constituyen una forma de vida para nosotros que puede ser mucho más.
Menos es mejor. La disciplina del ayuno nos ayuda a reducir la comida y bebida que ingerimos para que podamos digerir más fácilmente la Palabra de Dios. Nos ayuda a deshacernos de la lentitud de espíritu que acompaña el exceso. El ayuno se aplica también a reducir al mínimo el nivel de ruido que inunda nuestra vida diaria. Ser creativo para lograr más silencio y tranquilidad para poder orar y pensar en Dios es la senda del ayuno.
Por ejemplo, bajarle el volumen al ruido que choca con nuestra vida es una forma de ayuno de este maremoto de estimulación que puede desgastar el espíritu. El ayuno y la oración, por lo tanto, van mano a mano. Ayunamos con el fin de orar más ardientemente; oramos con el fin de utilizar los bienes del mundo con una mayor integridad como discípulos del Señor.
La limosna se deriva de la libertad de espíritu que la oración y el ayuno están seguros de inspirar. No vivimos sólo de pan, y a través de la oración fervorosa y el ayuno podemos más pacíficamente compartir nuestro pan con los demás. Qué experiencia tan gozosa es poder dar de nuestro tiempo, talento y tesoro para que otros puedan lograr más en sus vidas.
La limosna a menudo se entiende como la caridad generosa hacia alguien que tiene necesidad, o, quizás, a una causa que merece la pena. Esto no es un error, pero la limosna puede ser mucho más. Es un movimiento hacia otros más necesitados, sea que viven en nuestra propia familia o alguien que posiblemente nunca podremos conocer personalmente.
Quiero concluir mi reflexión con algunas reflexiones del Papa Francisco quien habla desde el corazón de la iglesia en Cuaresma con un profundo entendimiento del drama humano.
“Por encima de todo, es un “tiempo de gracia”. Dios no nos pide nada que él mismo no nos ha dado primero. Amamos porque él nos ha amado primero. No es ajeno a nosotros. Cada uno de nosotros tiene un lugar en su corazón. Él nos conoce por nombre, él se preocupa por nosotros y nos busca cada vez que nos alejamos de él. Él está interesado en cada uno de nosotros; su amor no le permite ser indiferente. La indiferencia es un problema que nosotros, como cristianos, necesitamos confrontar.
“Cuando el pueblo de Dios se convierte en su amor, encuentra respuestas a las preguntas que la historia se hace continuamente. Uno de los desafíos más urgentes que quiero referir en este mensaje es precisamente la globalización de la indiferencia.
La indiferencia hacia el prójimo y hacia Dios también representa una verdadera tentación para nosotros los cristianos. Cada año durante la Cuaresma necesitamos oír una vez más la voz de los profetas que exclaman y perturban nuestra conciencia.
“Dios no es indiferente a nuestro mundo; lo ama tanto que dio a su Hijo por nuestra salvación. En la encarnación, en la vida terrena, la muerte y la resurrección del Hijo de Dios, la puerta entre Dios y el hombre, entre el cielo y la tierra, se abre una vez por todas. La iglesia es como la mano que sostiene abierta esta puerta, gracias a su proclamación de la palabra de Dios, su celebración de los sacramentos y su testimonio de la fe que obra a través de amor de hermanas”.
En esta Cuaresma, pues, hermanos y hermanas, vamos a pedirle al Señor: Fac cor nostrum secundum cor tuum, “Haz nuestros corazones como el tuyo. De esta manera recibiremos un corazón que es firme y misericordioso, atento y generoso, un corazón que no está cerrado, o indiferente al mundo que nos rodea”.

Prayer, fasting, almsgiving

By Bishop Joseph Kopacz
There is a season for everything under heaven, says the inspired text of Ecclesiastes, and once again the time of renewal dawns for the whole church, for each community and for every believer. It is a time that touches many Catholics at our core, because we realize that it is so easy to become complacent or indifferent about the things that really matter, or better said, the relationships that really matter.
The Lord has told us what is that path for his disciples: to love the Lord our God with all of our heart, soul, mind and strength, and to love our neighbor as our ourselves. Our neighbor of course, is every living person, beginning at home, and extending to the margins of the world. These two commandments never go out of season, but our 40 day spiritual journey is an extra-ordinary time to grow in God’s grace as the Lord’s disciples.
The Ash Wednesday Gospel from Saint Matthew gives us the blueprint that will take us deeper into the heart of God who will then turn us back to one another in his Spirit. It is as clear as one, two, three, or prayer, fasting and almsgiving. Our experience of these three Lenten disciplines has shown us that these are the basics for transcending our self-centeredness, our selfishness and our sinfulness.
Prayer in its many forms raises our hearts and minds to God. We place aside our ego in order to better know the heart and mind of Jesus Christ. The Eucharist is the center, source and summit of our prayer, but there are many streams of prayer that nourish the spirit and feed the Lord’s body, the Church. On occasion when the apostles were unable to help a frightened man whose son was in the grip of a demon, Jesus assured them that fear is useless; what is needed is trust.” Trusting in the power of God is not possible without faithful prayer that nourishes the spirit and gives life to the Body of Christ.
Fasting is often the most underrated of the three Lenten mandates. As prayer is only possible when we set aside our precious time to focus on God, fasting also requires sacrifice because we are saying less is better. As we know Ash Wednesday and Good Friday are days of fasting from normal food consumption and abstaining from meat. They are the hinges of our forty-day pilgrimage and remain very important days on our spiritual calendar. But they represent a way of life for us that can be so much more. Less is better.
The discipline of fasting helps us to reduce our intake of food and drink so that we can more easily digest the Word of God. It helps us to shake off that sluggishness of spirit that accompanies excess. Fasting also applies to minimizing the level of noise that floods our everyday life. Being creative about carving out more silence and quiet so that we can pray and think about God is the path of fasting. For example, turning down the volume of noise that collides with our lives is a form of fasting from this tsunami of stimulation that can wear down the spirit. Fasting and prayer, then, go hand in hand. We fast in order to pray more ardently; we pray in order to use the world’s goods with greater integrity as the Lord’s disciples.
Almsgiving arises from the freedom of spirit that prayer and fasting are sure to inspire. We do not live by bread alone, and through faithful prayer and fasting we can more peacefully share our bread with others. What a joyous experience it is to be able to give of our time, talent, and treasure so that others may reach higher in their lives.
Almsgiving often is understood as charitable generosity to someone in need, or perhaps to a worthy cause. This is not misguided, but almsgiving can stand for so much more. It is a movement toward others in need whether they live in our own family or possibly someone we may never know personally.
I want to conclude my reflection with some thoughts from Pope Francis who speaks from the heart of the Church on Lent with a keen understanding of the human drama.
“Above all it is a ‘time of grace.’ God does not ask of us anything that he himself has not first given us. “We love because he first has loved us’. He is not aloof from us. Each one of us has a place in his heart. He knows us by name, he cares for us and he seeks us out whenever we turn away from him. He is interested in each of us; his love does not allow him to be indifferent. Indifference is a problem that we as Christians, need to confront.
“When the people of God are converted to his love, they find answers to the questions that history continually raises. One of the most urgent challenges which I would like to address in this message is precisely the globalization of indifference.
Indifference to our neighbor and to God also represents a real temptation for us Christians. Each year during Lent we need to hear once more the voice of the prophets who cry out and trouble our conscience.
“God is not indifferent to our world; he so loves it that he gave his Son for our salvation. In the Incarnation, in the earthly life, death, and resurrection of the Son of God, the gate between God and man, between heaven and earth, opens once for all. The Church is like the hand holding open this gate, thanks to her proclamation of God’s word, her celebration of the sacraments and her witness of the faith that works through love, sisters.”
“During this Lent, then, brothers and sisters, let us all ask the Lord: Fac cor nostrum secundum cor tuum – ‘Make our hearts like yours. In this way we will receive a heart that is firm and merciful, attentive and generous, a heart which is not closed, or indifferent to the world around us.”

Daydream dilemma: staying focused on now

IN EXILE
By Father Ron Rolheiser, OMI
A good part of our lives are taken up with daydreams, though few of us admit that and even fewer of us would own-up to the contents of those fantasies. We’re ashamed to admit how much we escape into fantasy and we’re even more ashamed to reveal the content of those fantasies. But, whether we admit it or not, we’re all pathological daydreamers; except this isn’t necessarily a pathology.
Our hearts and minds, chronically frustrated by the limits of our lives, naturally seek solace in daydreaming. It’s an almost irresistible temptation. Indeed the more sensitive you are, perhaps the stronger will be the propensity to escape into daydreams. Sensitivity triggers restlessness and restlessness doesn’t easily find quiet inside ordinary life. Hence, the escape into daydreams.
And what about the contents of those daydreams?
We tend to have two kinds of daydreams: The first kind are triggered more by the immediate hurts and temptations within our lives; for example, a lingering hurt or anger has you fantasizing about revenge and you play out various scenes of retaliation over and over again in your mind. Or an emotional or sexual obsession has you fantasying about various kinds of consummation.
The other kind of daydream we escape into is not so much triggered by the hurts and obsessions of the present moment but takes its root in something deeper, something classically expressed by St. Augustine in the opening lines of his Confessions (a hermeneutical key for his life and our own): You have made us for yourself Lord and our hearts are restless until they rest in you.
Simply put, we are over-charged for our lives, given infinite spirits and infinite appetites and put into this world wherein everything is finite. That’s a formula for chronic dissatisfaction. What’s our escape?  Daydreams.
However these second kind of daydreams are somewhat different from the first. They aren’t so much focused on the immediate angers and temptations in our lives but rather are the habitual imaginary lives that we have interiorly fashioned for ourselves, fantasy lives that we play over and over again in our minds the way we might play and replay a favorite movie.
But there’s something interesting and important to note here. In these daydreams we are never petty or small, rather we are always noble and grand, the hero or the heroine, generous, big-hearted, immune from faults, drawing perfect respect, and making perfect love. In these daydreams we, in fact, intuit the vision of Isaiah where he foresees a perfect world, the lamb and the lion lying down together, the sick being healed, the hungry being fed, all restlessness being brought to calm, and God, himself, drying away every tear. Isaiah too fantasied about perfect consummation. His fantasy was a prophecy.  In our earthy fantasies we might not prophesize but we do intuit the Kingdom of God.
With that being said, we still need to ask ourselves: How good or bad is it to escape into daydreams?
At one level, daydreams are not just harmless but can be a positive form of relaxation and a way to steady us inside the frustrations of our lives. Sitting back in an easy chair and sinking into a daydream can be little different than sitting back and turning on your favorite piece of music. It can be an escape that takes the edge off of the frustrations within your life.
But there’s a potential downside to this: Since in our daydreams we are always the hero or the heroine and the center of attention and admiration, our daydreams can easily stoke our natural narcissism. Since we are the center of everything in our daydreams we can easily become over-frustrated with a world within which we are not much the center of anything.
And there’s more: Etty Hillesum, reflecting on her own experience, suggests another negative consequence from habitually escaping into daydreams. She affirms that because we make ourselves the center of the universe inside our daydreams we often end up not being able to give anything or anybody the simple gaze of admiration.
Rather, in her strong words, in our daydreams we take in what we should be admiring. For this reason, among others, daydreams help block us from mindfulness, from being in the present moment. When we are all wrapped-up in fantasy it’s hard to see what’s in front of us.
So where should we go with all of this? Given both the good and bad within our daydreams and given our near-incurable propensity to escape into fantasy, we need to be patient with ourselves. Henri Nouwen suggests that the struggle to turn our fantasies into prayer is one of the great congenital struggles within our spiritual lives. Pierre Teilhard de Chardin shares in his journals that when he was young he struggled a lot with fantasy but, as he grew older, he was able more and more to stand in the present moment without the need to escape into daydreams. That’s the task we need to set before ourselves.
(Oblate Father Ron Rolheiser, theologian, teacher and award-winning author, is President of the Oblate School of Theology in San Antonio, TX.)

CSA appeal plants seeds in young Catholics by funding faith formation

By Fran Lavelle
Every once in a while we are reminded of the importance of looking back to see where God has been present in our daily lives. In ministry it is not only a good thing to look back but a necessary one. Responding to the bishop’s Catholic Service Appeal gave me such an opportunity to look back.  In my years in parish ministry I was blessed to serve the young people of this diocese through youth and campus ministry.

Mary Kate Domino, left, a student at the University of Mississippi speaks at the 2014 College campus ministry retreat. (Mississippi Catholic file photo)

Mary Kate Domino, left, a student at the University of Mississippi speaks at the 2014 College campus ministry retreat. (Mississippi Catholic file photo)

We are able to provide campus ministry programs in our diocese because of the support of the Catholic Service Appeal (CSA). Be assured the contributions you make, make a difference today as well as pay dividends well into the future. I am blessed to know former students who are serving the Church as priests, sisters, music ministers, youth ministers, catechists, and other parish leaders.
In campus ministry our ability to be present to students during their college years helps underscore  the importance of their Catholic faith. Undoubtedly we would not be able to provide that kind of formation if not for the grants campus ministry programs around the diocese receive from the Catholic Service Appeal.
The Catholic Service Appeal is like a bed of fertile soil without which we would not be able to grow the faith in communities both large and small throughout the diocese. We often don’t think about the soil our food comes from but we readily enjoy its fruits and vegetables. So too the contributions to the Catholic Service Appeal  are like that fertile soil, we see the benefits but may not make the connection between money given and the people served by the funding.
As I reflected further on the benefits to our parishes from the CSA it occurred to me that at every intersection of our faith formation we have access to programs funded by this appeal. Every aspect of our lives as Catholics in some way has benefited from the bishop’s appeal.
When we give to the Catholic Service Appeal we are ensuring that those who are called can be formed and educated to serve in their role be it as a priest or a lay person like  catechetical leaders, RCIA directors, marriage preparation leaders and other lay pastoral ministers who serve our diocese.
We often see the challenges of being a mission diocese and the large geographic area we cover as too much to overcome.  But we are blessed in abundance with generous folks who give of their time, talent and treasure.  Mississippi is ranked second in the nation for charitable givers by philanthrophy.com.
This comes as no surprise to me as I have witnessed time and again the generosity of the people in this diocese. I encourage you to pray about how you can best express our legacy of generosity. I have seen the good fruit your generosity bears in the lives of many former college students. What a gift it is to see it come full circle and witness their generosity as they give back.
I am grateful for your support of the Catholic Service Appeal and on behalf of the many lives touched by your generosity. Thank you.
(Fran Lavelle is Co-director of the Office of Evangelization and Faith Formation.)

Carta del obispo sobre el Llamado al Servicio Católico

Carta del Obispo Joseph Kopacz a la comunidad hispana sobre el Llamado al Servicio Católico (CSA por sus  siglas en inglés)
Hermanos y hermanas en Cristo:
Como su obispo, es importante que sepan que nuestra diócesis está dedicada a abrir las puertas de nuestra iglesia a las hermanas y hermanos hispanos que viven entre nosotros. Estamos aquí por ustedes y hemos estado sirviendo la población de habla hispana en algunas instancias durante los últimos 30 años. Todos hemos sido llamados a servir a otros del mismo modo que Jesús lo hizo, con amor y humildad. Él nos dio este regalo cuando lavó los pies de los discípulos.
Nuestro tema de este año para el Servicio Católico es el “Llamado a Servir”. Hoy me gustaría compartir con ustedes cómo servimos a nuestras hermanas y hermanos católicos a través de la Diócesis de Jackson.
En los años recientes, nuestra diócesis ordenó tres sacerdotes hispanos. Actualmente tenemos a Adolfo Suárez y a Cesar Sánchez de México estudiando para ser sacerdotes en nuestra diócesis. En total, hay cinco sacerdotes hispanos que hoy en día sirven a nuestra diócesis, y el Llamado al Servicio Católico ayuda a estos sacerdotes y seminaristas con su educación y formación después de su ordenación.
Además, muchos de nuestros sacerdotes junto con otros ministros pastorales nativos de los Estados Unidos, han trabajado duro para comprender y hablar el español con el fin de servir mejor a la población hispana en nuestro entorno. Por ejemplo, también hay cuatro nuevos sacerdotes redentoristas en nuestra diócesis trabajando en el Delta para evangelizar e integrar en nuestras comunidades parroquiales a la población hispana, así como para identificar y responder a las necesidades sociales de manera inminente. Estos sacerdotes llegaron el año pasado y están comprometidos a servir con nosotros los próximos cinco años.
El Llamado al Servicio Católico también apoya a la oficina del Ministerio Hispano. El hermano Ted y las hermanas María Elena y María Josefa viajan a través de la diócesis  para servir a la población hispana dentro de nuestras parroquias y los ministros de servicio social.
La oficina del Ministerio Hispano ha capacitado a más de 120 personas para ser líderes en sus comunidades parroquiales a través del Instituto Pastoral del Sureste (SEPI), el liderazgo y los talleres litúrgicos en aquellas parroquias que lo requieran. Esta oficina trabaja actualmente con más de 27 parroquias hispanas a lo largo de la diócesis. También trabajan con el Movimiento Familiar Cristiano (MFCC), que está trabajando con más de 50 familias en las áreas de Jackson y Tupelo, ayudando a formar comunidades de fe promoviendo las vocaciones y la vida familiar católica.
El Llamado al Servicio Católico también apoya al Centro de Apoyo Migratorio de Caridades Católicas. Esta oficina proporciona servicios directos como la renovación de la autorización de empleo, extensión de visas y el estatus de protección temporal. También ayuda a educar a la población hispana sobre sus derechos en los Estados Unidos. A menudo, colaboran con el gobierno y los dirigentes cívicos para llevar a cabo estos servicios de ayuda a las personas para a conocer y lograr sus derechos. El Centro de Apoyo Migratorio también ofrece todos los jueves clases de inglés gratuitas.
Su regalo para el Llamado al Servicio Católico es para apoyar y fortalecer todos los increíbles ministerios mencionados en esta carta y para estar preparados para responder a nuevas posibilidades en el futuro. Les invito a dar un regalo al llamado de este año mientras continuamos nuestro camino de fe para seguir el ejemplo de Jesús como todos hemos sido “Llamados para Servir.”
Sinceramente
tuyo en Cristo,
Obispo Joseph R. Kopacz

Prayer meeting surprises reluctant pastor

Reflections on Life
By Father Jerome Le Doux
With prayer meeting scheduled for 7:00 Sunday evening, my battery was perhaps only 70 percent recharged from the drain of three Masses and chatter. Three good snoozes only invited a fourth. Furthermore, the acclaimed Schindler’s List was due to show on the All Heroes Channel, and I had not yet seen it.
Encountering me at the wake of Isabell Mesker’s mother, Martin Daley invited me to attend the Sunday evening prayer meeting at the St. Peter Church chapel. “Come if you can!” he pleaded. “Mostly women attend the Thursday meeting, but we men will be at the Sunday evening meeting. We would love to have you.”
He called a couple of days later, then he called again Sunday afternoon to remind me.
This tug of war continued long enough to make me a bit late for the meeting. Upon entering, I laid eyes on a 160-seat chapel brimming with a standing room only crowd of eager, attentive folks keying in on Dan Bradley, a guitar player who sounded for all the world like a somewhat muted James Taylor. Finger work complemented his voice that led a devotional rendering of Alleluia and a medley of sacred compositions.
All was quiet, meditative singing, and, off and on, many hands were raised in thanksgiving and praise, while voices from all around reverently accompanied most of the songs. After a half dozen or so songs, a young lady named Cassie was invited up to sing and then to share a guitar piece. With her strum, strum, strum and at times a thrumpa, thrumpa thrump, she was less polished than Dan, but still good.
Very politely, a handful of folks invited me to move from my standing spot in the rear to a seat somewhere in the nave. I declined until finally I was taken almost by force to the very front right. When Cassie was done, a teen-aged lad next to me was called up to play the guitar and sing. Having accomplished both very well, he returned to his seat and introduced himself as Jim McDonald, grandson of Dan.
Obviously, he came by his musical talents honestly through his grandfather, although his grandfather later told me that he had stopped playing for 20 years until he resumed playing in order to play and sing for his grandchildren. What a loving and pleasant testimony to his grandchildren! Frankly, he sounded professional.
From his up-and-down movement and orchestration of the goings-on, Pat Gorman seemed to be master of ceremonies of the whole prayer meeting. And there I was musing, “I came for a prayer meeting, and here we have a religious concert as an added attraction. As Peter, James and John said on the mountain at the time of the Transfiguration, ‘Lord, it is good for us to be here!’”
A mature lady sang “How Great Thou Art” and Pat Gorman sang a couple of songs, one of which he himself had composed. Ted Daley, who had sung delightfully at the wake of Isabell Mesker’s mother, edified us with a baritone selection. Throughout, there were random testimonies and prayers from the congregation about the illness or other problems of relatives or friends of the Irish Travelers.
Though it is understood that all ethnic groups have problems peculiar to their group, the Irish Travelers are people of powerful, expressive faith, of loyalty to their families and friends, and of considerable generosity. It is amazing that I have yet to encounter one person who called or came to beg or borrow. Hitting my bowl of roasted peanuts is the one exception to which everyone – Irish or not – is partial.
Smiling as I say this, I assure you that I have never been enriched by so many calls for confessions, sessions of counseling and impromptu visits as from the Irish Travelers of all ages from teenagers to mature keenagers. It has been an honor to receive visits from a handful to as many as 20 teenagers at a time.
Called to speak toward the end, I noted the close bond between Irish and black music. “’Oh Danny Boy’ is the most famous example,” I told them. Backed by Dan in C, I sang “Danny Boy” a la Jackie Wilson. Then I sang Dottie Rambo’s 1967 soul lyrics to that same Londonderry melody, “Amazing Grace, shall always be my song of praise,” known also as “He Looked Beyond My Fault And Saw My Need.”
All prayer meetings are edifying and inspirational, but, by its sheer size and intensity, this one turned out to be the mother of all the prayer meetings I have attended. Holding hands in conclusion, we formed a power circle that had to be doubled in spots because of the great number. “Lead us in your Our Father!” they asked me expectantly. So, to a sea of smiling faces, we sang the popular “Echo Our Father” that keeps repeating “Hallowed Be Thy Name” after each verse.
“God is love, and all who abide in love abide in God and God in them.”   (1 John 4:16)
(Father Jerome LeDoux, SVD, is pastor of Our Mother of Mercy Parish in Fort Worth, Texas. He has written “Reflections on Life since 1969.)

Vocation not just for consecrated Christians

Millennial Reflections
By Father Jeremy Tobin, O.Praem
Pope Francis has designated this year as the Year of Consecrated Life. Among other things, it sheds a spotlight on responding to the call to witness and serve those on the margins. In the churches I serve each week we pray for an increase in the number of priests, brothers, sisters, deacons and lay ministers.
Looking back over the years there never has been a lack of dedicated Christians who, by their lifestyle and service, have made an impact on those they reached out to. Sometimes they, and their ministry, go unrecognized. This is understandable since people on the margins are often invisible.
The initial readings for Ordinary Time stress the prophetic tradition. The Holy Spirit calls people to witness and raise the consciousness of people to rededicate themselves and live their lives authentically. The way the readings are paired up we see that John the Baptist and Jesus both come out of this tradition.
From our baptism we receive the Holy Spirit and throughout our lives we may be called to do something significant. For some of us it is religious life, for others it is a focused lifestyle and a specialized service to specific groups. Many religious congregations started out like this. For example, last week we remembered Angela Merici. She may not ring a bell with many of us, but she was an ordinary woman in her day at the end of the 15th century. Moved by the number of street children, especially girls, she got organized and with her companions started to teach these children. She founded a community dedicated to St. Ursula. The Ursuline Sisters made a huge contribution in building up the American Catholic school system. Their  convent in New Orleans is still visited by many in need of a miracle. People know of the Ursulines, but may not know about their founder.
Another example I will cite is Elizabeth Ann Seton, who founded the Sisters of Charity. She was married, raised a family, widowed and wanted to do more. Many, like these two, were ordinary people whose calling evolved into a religious congregation. Not all do.
Dorothy Day is an example. The Catholic Worker Movement, through witnessing a distinct lifestyle, is still a group made up of lay people. The point I am making is that our baptism is the source of our vocation. When you are baptized you become an active member of Christ’s body, and are called to do what he did. The acronym made popular a few years ago, WJJD, (what would Jesus do?) expresses something about our call as Christians, baptized into the death and resurrection of Christ.
Several people close to me died in the last two months, and all were exceptional Christians. Recently I was at the funeral of one whose whole life reflected her Christian faith and passion for social justice. For her, what happened in the community is as important as what happens in the church. She focused her energy on education, and the rights of students in school. She saw the direct link between dropping out of school and going to prison, so she co-founded a local group that affiliated with a national movement to break the cycle of the school-to-prison pipeline. She was particularly focused on policies that pushed kids out rather than kept them in school. She believed that human rights belong to everyone and are rooted in the Gospel.
She was a fighter for children’s rights in school, a parent advocate on Mississippi Families as Allies for Children’s Mental Health Inc. Board and for 12 years she was on the Holmes County School Board. All of this was driven by her Christian faith, her passion for children being treated fairly and her commitment to enacting policies that protected them and improved the schools.
The organizations and coalitions that she founded or cooperated with were strengthened by her unselfish passion for justice. All the money in the world could not make her do what she did. It was a calling, a vocation. She will be sorely missed, but leaves a powerful legacy.
When we look at vocations, how God calls people to do what they do, we need a wide lens. The Holy Spirit is calling people every day, and many answer the call. We need to support, encourage and pray that more hear the call of God and answer it. I will have more to say on this topic as the year progresses.
“The harvest is ripe, pray the Lord to send laborers into the harvest.”
(Father Jeremy Tobin, O.Praem, lives at the Priory of St. Moses the Black, Jackson.)