Embracing our brothers, sisters on their journey home

Kneading faith
By Fran Lavelle
I am known to shop online as I have a minor book addiction. I was thinking the other day how much my on line purveyor actually knows about me. They pay attention to the purchases I make and every time I log in they have suggestions for me. I surrendered to the Madison Avenue machine of clever marketing years ago because l live in the country and quite honestly like the convenience shopping online. One practice they employ is asking for feedback about your purchase. Was it everything I had hoped it would be? And, by chance if I needed to return it they want to know why.
I was thinking about the people who have left the church and it occurred to me that we don’t do an exit survey to find out why folks have come to a decision to leave. As “church people” we fear they are going to tell us that a priest, brother, sister or lay person did something or said something that drove them away. To be sure, that has happened. Perhaps an exit interview is a bit extreme. It could create a vulnerable and uncomfortable situation for all parties involved, but there is much that could be learned from such an endeavor.
What are we saying when we do not follow up when a member of our parish stops attending Mass? In Luke’s gospel (Luke 15:4-7), Jesus gives us the following parable: “What man among you having a hundred sheep and losing one of them would not leave the ninety-nine in the desert and go after the lost one until he finds it? And when he does find it, he sets it on his shoulders with great joy and, upon his arrival home, he calls together his friends and neighbors and says to them, ‘Rejoice with me because I have found my lost sheep.’ I tell you, in just the same way there will be more joy in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous people who have no need of repentance.
If we are not looking for the lost sheep who is? There is a part of me that wants to see the Body of Christ reconciled and healed right now. Another part of me understands the journey for each of us is different. I think about the prodigal son story often. His journey was his teacher.  He had to leave and lose it all to understand that which he had possessed all along.
Somewhere, deep within, he knew he could go home. I think of my own journey and how I got where I am today. I had a few years in college where I didn’t have the best attendance record. My mother refers to it as my “fallen away period.” How ironic that I would end up ministering to college students for the better part of my adult life. I realized many years after college that my in spotty Mass attendance served a purpose.
When I got back to going to Mass weekly, I came to it as an adult. It was a priority because I made it one.  What about others who no longer go to Mass. I know my story, but do I know theirs? I don’t mean an “all up in your business” knowing. Rather, I mean an understanding kind of knowing. Maybe that’s the point of my rumination. Maybe what we need when people leave the church is not so much to understand the nitty-gritty of why, but to have a chance to say that we hope one day they will feel at home again.
Like my story, some folks make choices about faith for many reasons. I have friends who, prior to getting married 40 plus years ago, decided that her Catholic faith did not sit well with his Church of God family so they got married and became Methodist. After three and a half decades away from the church she decided she needed to revisit the faith of her youth. Her separation from the Eucharist all of those years was palatable.
Their children were grown and her need to appease his family had lessened. She made the journey back to her Catholic faith. She returned home and eventually over the course of next several years her husband, daughters and even a son in law have joined her at the Eucharistic table. I recount this story to say we all experience faith as a journey. Some of us are dutiful and faithful and never wavier, never doubt or question. The path is straight and the goal remains always in sight. For others we cannot escape the detours, road blocks and meandering road.
A friend from Mobile is working with a program, Catholics Returning Home. It is one of 12 model programs listed in the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops (USCCB) directory “A Time to Listen … A Time to Heal” and is used throughout the U.S. and other countries. It was developed by a lay person, Sally Mew, and has been in use at parishes across the country for some 34 years now.
If your parish is intentional about having a ministry for returning Catholics, we applaud you. If your parish does not currently have a program, the Office of Faith Formation is willing to help you find a program that meets the needs of your community.
(Fran Lavelle is Co-Director of the Department of Evangelization and Faith Formation.)

2015 Confirmation Schedule

Below is the confirmation schedule for 2015. If a candidate is unable to attend the celebration in their local area, the pastor or confirmation coordinator should contact the parish where they would be able to receive the sacrament.

April 12 – St. Richard Parish, Jackson – 5 pm
April 19 – St. Joseph Parish, Gluckstadt – 5 pm
April 21 – Annunciation Parish, Columbus – 6 pm
April 22 – St. Elizabeth Parish, Clarksdale – 6 pm
April 29 – St. Francis Parish, Madison – 6 pm
May 2 – St. John Parish, Oxford – 11 am
May 2 – St. Francis Parish, New Albany – 4:30 pm
May 3 – St. Luke Parish, Bruce – 11 am
May 5 – St. Jude Parish, Pearl – 6 pm
May 9 – St. Joseph Parish, Greenville – 11 am
May 10 – Immaculate Heart of Mary, Houston – 11:15 am
May 10 – St. Helen Parish, Amory – 4:30 pm
May 12 – St. Patrick Parish, Meridian – 6 pm
May 14 – St. Mary Basilica, Natchez – 6 pm
May 17 – Our Lady of Victories, Cleveland – 5 pm
July 25 – St. James Parish, Tupelo – 4:30 pm
Oct. 25 – Christ the King Parish, Southaven, 5 pm

Encuentro 2015: Called to be, belong

By Elsa Baughman
JACKSON – The diocesan Office of Hispanic Ministry is preparing to hold this year’s Hispanic Encuentro at the Greenwood Civic Center on Saturday, April 18, with the theme “Called to Be, to Belong and to Serve.” Activities will begin at 8:30 a.m. with registration and will end at 5 p.m. with a Mass celebrated by Bishop Joseph Kopacz and other priests who will be attending the encuentro.
The event is designed for youth 13 and older and adults. This year’s speakers are Edgardo Farias and Fabio Trujillo both from Miami. Sister María Elena Méndez, from the Office of Hispanic Ministry, is celebrating 25 years of religious life. She will renew her vows at the event.
Activities will include talks, music, reflections, and small group sharing sessions. The celebration of this diocesan event began in 2002 and was celebrated at Madison St. Francis of Assisi Parish. Since then it has been held in Tupelo and Jackson. Brother Ted Dausch, CFC, director of the office, says Greenwood seems to be the best place to hold the event because of it’s central location.
Mary Del Cid, a member of Hazlehurst St. Martín Mission, said her experience of the Encuentro has been very nice because she has had the opportunity to meet many people from all the different communities of the diocese. “To be able to share experiences with people from different countries is very beautiful and enriching,” she said, adding that “to be there all together and united as Hispanics, made me forget the borders and realize that at the end we are all equal, that we are all children of God and that we must be united and support each other no matter the color or race.”
She invited her friends and other Hispanics to attend the event and “to support it because it is a very good experience.” Del Cid’s sentiment reflects the spirit and objectives of this annual event where all who participate have the opportunity to experience what it is to be a Hispanic in the Jackson diocese and to reflect and live their faith together.
Brother Dausch said this event also offers those who attend a time to explore and examine the diversity among themselves and a way to discover the many gifts that are within that diversity.

Catholic Charities launches online adoption, foster care resource

By Maureen Smith
JACKSON – Adoptive and foster parents, as well as teenagers in foster care, have a new resource at their disposal thanks to the work from a team at Catholic Charities. Staff members in adoption services used a grant from the Mississippi Department of Human Services to create a website packed full of resources and educational opportunities. The staff is also taking the resources on the road, offering continuing education workshops to foster parents across the state.
Angela Griffin, the program director for adoption services, said when her agency got the grant to develop an online resource for adoptive and foster parents, she and her co-workers thought it would be a one-page site. “There were not any strict guidelines as to how to develop this, so we started brainstorming,” Griffin explained. Before long, she and her co-workers had lots of ideas, but needed some direction.
Rachel Hodges, a senior from Jackson State University, started an internship with Catholic Charities in December, 2014. The rest of the team members credit her with bringing a new energy and focus to the project. In addition to helping get everything organized and launched, she created some of the online evaluation materials.
“I had the opportunity to create the tests for the CEU (continuing education credit) materials,” said Hodges. She used five different texts creating a quiz for each. “I learned a lot for myself that I can use in future parenting situations,” she added.
Ben Garrott, technology director for the agency said it quickly became apparent the ‘page’ could be its own website. “It just kept growing and growing,” he joked, adding that once the team came up with a template, colors and a structure, building it was easy.
Griffin said her team did not have to create a lot of new materials. “The resources were out there. This was just a matter of putting it together in one place,” Griffin explained. She has 15 years of experience in adoption and foster care. Her co-worker, Stephanie Harris, has 25. That expertise helped them narrow down what offerings were important, relevant and needed. “Knowing what families want and need in terms of resources and knowing how adoptions are handled helps.” Both women said input from families who are caring for foster or adopted children is important to the resource site.
The site has sections for adoptive and foster parents, birth mothers and teens and tweens who are in foster care. It features paper and electronic books people can request, videos, articles and links. Many of the resources are just to help people, especially the children, birth parents and those seeking information about adoption. Others include web-based or in-person learning options for adoptive and foster parents. Foster parents must complete 10 hours of CEU training a year. This allows them to complete some of that training online and there are schedules where they can see what in-person training Catholic Charities offers. These sessions range from how foster parents can better communicate with schools to diagnosis and medication management as well as other childcare topics.
“We wanted it to have a variety of tools,” said Griffin. “One part of the environment that gets left out is birth parents. There is information on how to search for a child that they may not know about,” explained Griffin. She said many people did not talk about birth parents before the modern idea of open adoption. She said she has seen a change in birth mothers who opt to give up their babies in her time in the field. “Most of them want open adoption now. They are not afraid to share their information. Today, most of them are driving the adoption. They are being more proactive, seeking out parents themselves,” she added. She said there are risks in this kind of adoption, but it does put more power in the hands of the birth family.
Harris said she has seen many changes in the adoption and foster care field throughout her career. “This technology age has really brought about a change. Seeing Catholic Charities go through that and add it in has really been a positive thing,” she said. Resources like this online library are an example of how the agency can serve multiple audiences at one time.
The staff plans to maintain the site, adding new materials as need. It can be found online at www.ccjresourcelibrary.org.
Catholic Charities programs such as adoption and foster care are funded through Catholic Service Appeal. Donations help cover overall costs at the agency and put money into particular programs as needed. It’s not too late to pledge or donate to CSA.

Karitas Daycare expands services, accepts DHS certificates

By Maureen Smith
JACKSON – When children spend their days at Karitas Day Care, a ministry of Catholic Charities, they get much more than just educational opportunities, structure and healthy food. They also get extra grandparents. One of the perks of the daycare is that several foster grandparents spend a couple hours every day providing extra love and attention to the babies and children there.
The daycare was recently approved by the Mississippi Department of Human Services’ Division of Early Childhood Care and Development (DECCD) to accept Child Care and Development Fund Certificates to provide child care assistance to low-income families. Previously, families had to be referred to Karitas, but now anyone can apply for a certificate and enroll a child.
The center takes children aged 6-weeks to 12 years and is open from 7:30 a.m. until 6 p.m. “We offer children a structured and secure environment – a safe place,” said director Caroline Bealer. She has been on the job for 19 years. “This is more than just a job to me, it’s a mission,” Bealer said and that seems to hold true for other staff members as well. One of the teachers has served the center for 30 years.
Karitas provides tutoring, field trips, arts and crafts, opportunities for sports and dramatic play, tutoring and homework help for school-aged children who come for after school care and welcomes special visitors such as firefighters. Karitas provides lunch, supper and snacks. The children are divided by age and there is a limit to how many children can be enrolled so teachers can maintain a good ratio with the kids. Computers are available for older children who need them to complete homework.
The foster grandparents are just a bonus. Many of them have also been coming for years. Bealer said for low-income parents having a child care option is good for the whole family.  “Having a daycare option will allow a parent to do things they may not be able to do with small children at home such as seek employment or seek challenges and goals to better themselves,” she said. She added that the children benefit as well.
“Sometimes, you will see a child who has never been away from a parent so when they go to school it can be a struggle,” she added. The teachers at Karitas all have certifications in early childhood education so they help the children with social skills, gross and fine motor skills as well as some of the educational benchmarks that can benefit them when they do start school.
The center is located directly behind Jackson Holy Family Parish on Forest Street in Northeast Jackson. Parents interested in sending their children to Karitas should first apply for a certificate on the state website: www.childcareinfo.ms. Select Catholic Charities as the provider and fill out the application. For more information on the programs at Karitas, call the center at 601-366-8281.

IN MEMORIAM

SINSINAWA, Wis. — A Mass of Christian Burial for Sister Dorothy Ann Griff, OP, was celebrated at Queen of the Rosary Chapel March 16. Burial took place in the Motherhouse Cemetery. Sister Griff died March 13 at St. Dominic Villa. Her religious name was Sister Ephrem. She served in Mississippi, Illinois, Wisconsin, California, Minnesota, Iowa and Texas.
In the Diocese of Jackson, Sister Griff taught adult education and was literacy coordinator at Sacred Heart Southern Missions, Walls, from 1990-1998, and served as literacy instructor at DeSoto Center Literacy Council, Hernando, from 1998-2001, and tutor at Northwest Community College, Southaven, from 2001-2007.
Memorials may be made to the Sinsinawa Dominicans, 585 County Road Z, Sinsinawa, WI, 53824-9701 or online at www.sinsinawa.org by clicking on “Donate Now,” then “Honor and Memorial Gift.”

LOUISVILLE, Ky. – Ursuline Sister Helen Marie Lutz, died March 19 at the age of 87 in Louisville, Ky. Born in Canton, Sister Lutz taught at Camden Sacred Heart High School from 1982 to 1992. From 1992 to 1995, she was a literacy program assistant in Canton and in volunteer ministry to the sick and elderly there.
Sister Lutz attended Mississippi State College for Women in Columbus, Miss., before transferring to Ursuline College in Louisville.
Besides Mississippi, Sister Lutz served in Kentucky, Maryland, Nebraska, Pennsylvania and South Carolina.  From 1995 to 2005, Sister Lutz was a resident of the Ursuline Motherhouse in Louisville, serving as a receptionist and tutor before moving to Mercy Sacred Heart in 2010.
Memorials may be made to the Ursuline Sisters and mailed to the Mission Advancement Office, 3105 Lexington Road, Louisville, KY 40206.

Knights name foundation director

JACKSON – The Mississippi Knights of Columbus Foundation Board of Directors approved Greg Patin, a member of Jackson St. Richard’s Council 15131, as the newest volunteer executive director of the foundation.
The Knights of Columbus Foundation was formed to receive and disburse grant funds for organizations serving children with special needs in the State of Mississippi. These organizations include the state chapter of Special Olympics, The McDougal Center in Tupelo, St. Richard’s Special Kids and other organizations that help individuals with intellectual disabilities.
Most councils raise money by selling Tootsie Rolls in April and May of each year. The funds are received by the foundation and designated by the Councils to be given to a specific organization, usually in the council’s community.
This year, the foundation expanded its services to receive and disburse funds for disaster relief efforts by Knights of Columbus Councils in Mississippi. “My long-time experience with disaster relief efforts will help strengthen this new outreach of the foundation,” said Patin who succeeds Larry Tabor, who served in the role for the past four years.
Patin is excited to serve in his new role and help the foundation become better known in the state.

Franciscan Sisters reflect on service in Greenwood

(Editor’s Note: Earlier this year, Mississippi Catholic requested reflections from the orders of consecrated people serving in the Diocese of Jackson. As those reflections come in, we will share them in the paper as part of the Year of Consecrated Life. Four Franciscan Sisters of Christian Charity shared their thoughts on their current work while Sister Judith Norwick, OSF, who has since left her work in Greenwood shared her own reflection on the community. Religious wishing to submit a reflection should send it to editor@mississippicatholic.com.)
The members of our community include Sister Elena Gonzáles Sister Annette Kurey, Sister Mary Ann Tupy and Sister Kathleen Murphy. We are currently serving at Greenwood St. Francis of Assisi Parish. Our Community Charisms are simplicity, firmly built on faith in a loving God; joyful acceptance of poverty; love for the church, and selfless dedication to the service of others.
Our Community‘s ministries are mainly education and health care though we do have sisters who are parish administrators or use their gifts in different ministries. So when the Franciscan Friars of the Assumption of the Blessed Mary Province asked our Community to work with them here in the Mississippi Delta at St. Francis of Assisi grade school it seemed like a perfect fit. Our school goes from Pre-K to sixth grade.
The school was started in 1951 to serve mainly the African American community here in Greenwood. Today we still serve largely the African American community, but our open door policy welcomes Hispanic families and those of other ethnicities as well.
To celebrate the Year of Consecrated Life we Sisters join in a monthly Holy hour during which we recite a prayer in celebration of Consecrated Life. To initiate the year to our parish we held an open house at our convent on Sunday, February 8th.
We will also be praying as a parish for all of the consecrated men and women religious who have ever served here at St. Francis from its beginnings until today. Another part of celebrating our call to consecrated life is sharing that life through vocation outreach activities. As the year unfolds other opportunities to pray and share will be coming.
My name is Sister Judith Norwick, O.S.F. I served at St. Francis of Assisi Parish during the school years of 2003 – 2009 in parish ministry – visiting the homebound, bringing the Eucharist to them and also to our parishioners in nursing homes or in the hospital.  I was also a part of the RCIA team, and helped in school wherever needed and in our local food pantry. I found the people of Greenwood very welcoming, warm, and friendly, “as warm as the weather in the South.” I miss each one of them.

Ancient liturgies, timeless salvation story: Holy Week gives way to Easter

By Mary Woodward
JACKSON – As we make our way through Holy Week which began with the celebration of Palm Sunday, we look back and take stock of the beauty and sacred moments these liturgies of this most holy of weeks provide. On Palm Sunday we joined with Catholics around the world in blessing palms and remembering Jesus’ triumphal entry into Jerusalem.
A few minutes later we embarked upon the passion narrative of St. Mark. With this festive beginning that transcends into the passion and death of Jesus, we begin our own journey into “Jerusalem” and the holiest of weeks in our church’s tradition.
On Tuesday, we celebrated the Mass of Chrism in the Cathedral of St. Peter the Apostle, where with the presbyterate gathered around, Bishop Joseph Kopacz blessed the oils of catechumens and the sick and consecrated the Sacred Chrism. These oils presented to parish representatives were taken back to home parishes for use throughout the year to anoint the sick and baptize infants and adults. A striking point in this Mass is the Renewal of Priestly Commitment where the priests present renew the promises they made at their ordination.
On Wednesday in the cathedral, we prayed and sang the Office of Tenebrae, an ancient part of the Liturgy of the Hours that reflects on the suffering of Jesus Christ while offering a glimmer of hope at the end in one remaining lighted candle. It is always a very moving ceremony that features readings from the Lamentations of Jeremiah, psalms and hymns on the cross and crown of thorns. After each reading a candle on the altar is extinguished until one is left burning and offering hope.
The Sacred Triduum begins and Lent officially ended with the Mass of the Lord’s Supper on Thursday. This Mass is filled with rituals and symbols revolving around the true meaning of the Eucharist – sacrifice and service. The Gospel reading from St. John is that of the washing of the disciples’ feet by Jesus. In the liturgy 12 feet are washed by the bishop who, in the image of Christ, reflects the servanthood of being a follower of Jesus. At this liturgy a second ciborium of hosts is consecrated for distribution on Good Friday.
The final movement of the Holy Thursday liturgy is the transfer of the ciborium by procession to an area separate from the main altar perhaps even in another building. In St. Peter Cathedral the altar of repose is decorated to look like a middle eastern garden with palms in urns and fresh budding flowers to reflect the garden of Gethsemane where Jesus went to pray and was ultimately betrayed and also to foreshadow the garden tomb. The faithful remained in prayer and adoration trying to stay with the Lord.
Good Friday is one of my favorite liturgies of the church. It is once again an ancient ritual – one of the oldest in the church’s centuries old liturgical tradition. The altar is bare, stripped of all ornamentation and the liturgy begins in silence. The starkness of the church is quite striking.
The passion narrative of St. John is read, and then the general intercessions are chanted or recited. Following these time honored prayers we venerate the cross. What a moving moment to be able to touch or kiss the cross and watch our fellow Catholics come forward and do the same knowing that so many of them have had trials and struggles in their lives throughout the past year.
Once the veneration is finished, the altar is set with a simple red cloth and corporal.  The ciborium of hosts consecrated the evening before is brought to the altar for distribution to the faithful. The liturgy ends in silence and we are left to contemplate Christ on the cross.
Contrasting the starkness of Good Friday, the Easter Vigil and Easter Sunday Masses lift us up from despair because we know the tomb is empty and the Lord has risen.
As we complete our Holy Week journey for this year, we should reflect on this great week filled with intricate and deeply sacred liturgies. We too walk the path of our Lord as he makes his way to Jerusalem, the upper room, the garden, the cross, the tomb and finally the Resurrection.
Let us all open our hearts and minds to the passion of our Lord and the sacrifice he made for us all so that on Easter morning we can truly sing with joyful hearts – Jesus Christ is risen today! Alleluia! Alleluia!
(Mary Woodward is the Chancellor for the Diocese of Jackson.)

St. Anthony welcomes new principal

By Maureen Smith
MADISON – St. Anthony School will have a new principal for the 2015/2016 school year, Jim Bell. Bell, a native of Cambridge, Mass., has spent his whole career in Catholic education, working at schools in Rochester, NY, and Huntsville, Ala. The students, faculty, parents and staff at St. Anthony School welcomed Bell the week of March 16, when he visited his new school.
“I was impressed with the academic record and the arts program at St. Anthony,” said Bell. He said he and his wife, who is from New Orleans, had been looking to move closer to the Crescent City when he saw the job opening at St. Anthony. “When I came to visit I just fell in love with the school and the people there,” he added.
A search committee spent months deciding what kind of leader the school might need and looking for the right fit for the community. Mike Kelly, who has two daughters at St. Anthony was on that committee. He said he wanted someone who could maintain both the academic excellence and Catholic identity of St. Anthony.
“Academic excellence is important, but so is the Catholic identity. You have to have both and I feel you can have both,” he explained. He said the committee liked Bell’s track record and felt like he was a good fit for the whole school community. “I wanted to find someone who could really move the school forward and that’s who we found,” said Kelly.
Bell and his family will move to the Madison area this summer and he will start work in July.